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Risk on Receiving Oral Sex with Condom on

I’m in quite a deep anxiety and really need help on my situation. Since English isn’t my native language, sorry if there’s any confusing made.

I went to a massage parlour few days ago, and got massage from a lady both naked (but she got her underpants on during the whole session).

Before the massage started, we went showered together. She then masturbate me for a 1-2 minutes then gave me an oral sex ONLY(protected with condom on the whole time) at the end, no any other sexual activity occurred, she also didn’t licked any other parts of me besides my nipple. I’m pretty sure that the condom hasn’t leaked or broken after I ejaculated. She took of my condom after I ejaculate and wiped my penis with tissues afterwards.

I also couldn’t see any bleeding wounds or cuts on her body or hands, but not sure if there’re any lesion inside her mouth.

I’ve called and ask the local HIV association and also consulted a doctor these days. The local HIV consultant told me that I’m in an extremely low risk on stds and about zero risk for HIV. But on the other hand the doctor I consulted said there’re risks in any acts, a condom will lower my risk but still risky, oral sex will also have a risk to transmit HIV.

Here will be my concerns:

1) Will I be at risks for any stds (especially HIV and Syphilis) in this act? Do I need to get tested just based on this act?

2) I know it’s a quite crazy question, but if assuming that there’s sperm from previous customers or virus inside the showering gel or on the tissue, will there be a chance that I’ll get infected?

3) just want to know is oral sex a low risk act on transmitting stds? And how lower the chances will be if I used a condom correctly?

4) Is there any cases happened before that are similar to me and got infected?

I know I’m really dumb and shouldn’t make any mistakes like that, and I’ll promise not to be involved in any acts with strangers again in the future. I’m really stressed out these days and need help on this issue, my questions might be long,  it please help answering in more details. Sorry for being annoyed.
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You did not have any risk for HIV, and you do not need to test. The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles.

There is no other activity you could think of, including the event you mentioned, that would put you at risk for HIV.

I see you have a thread in our STDs forum, so your questions about syphilis will be answered there.
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Thank you so much Curfew, so does that mean there’re never a case a person got HIV from receiving oral sex? And also one last question, just being curious, will receiving oral sex without a condom on is a risk for HIV? Thank you for your patience.
If receiving oral sex were a risk in any way, I would have told you so. ZERO RISK.
Thank you Curfew for your patience, just being curious, once the virus left the body (which means no fluid or blood) the virus will be dead and lost it infectivity, am I correct? In order to get infected, the virus will need to go from mucous to mucous or bleeding wound directly without any air or something else in present.  (And also enough viral load).
Forget about ANY event that is not one of the two events I mentioned in my first response to you.
Thank you Curfew, I’ll try to move on. Hearing the answer from you and rolling down to see others stories answers do reassured me a lot. Thank you again for your help.
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