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Risky encounter during massage

Hello members,
I really like your work you are helping a lot of people since days I am browsing this community and helped me to educate myself for HIV good work.
I know this question has been asked here 100 times as i found during my "Educate myself" time, and also other portals but somehow this is making me confusing:

#1. 3 weeks ago I had an erotic massage and I really liked that. During the massage we have unprotected oral and I was fingering the lady so deep. I have completely forgotten about the cuts (2 cuts) I had on my finger (behind my fingers close to nail)  an hour ago during the shaving. The finger cuts were kind of deep and bleeding and I felt pain when I washed my hands but it stopped bleeding and was not bleeding during the encounter (not that I am aware of). Also my fingers were oily during the encounter I guess.

2. Besides that I shaved my Anus, butts and the pubic hair (due to shaving I had bleeding cuts on my anus butts and nearly penis area). All this happened 40 minutes before massage.

3. Now during the massage the lady was rubbing her vagina on me (front side) and and my back (where shaving cuts were on butts and anus).

I am so confused many people say I am at risk due to shaving cuts on my butts, anus and pubic hair and also and the cut on my finger puts me at high risk. I do not believe that I was at high risk but I am feeling sick and because of me my partner is also sick for a week.

Please suggest something
regards,
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Zero risk.
You must be browsing lots of forums to find someone who gave advice that is it any risk. We rely on the opinion of expert doctors so do not pay attention to all of the forums you locate that use conservative ideas when they make claims that have never manifested in 40 years of HIV history.
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thank ANM :) one last thing I wanted to clarify is about the followings:
1. During massagethe lady used Butt Plug for me and i felt alot of pain and felt like my Anus was hurt (the Butt plug was new and had a condom on) but the concern is she used butt plug for about 15 minutes when she took out I felt pain and it seemed like my skin was injured when I washed later. Now after using the plug she carried on the massage and was synchronizing bodies all naked (when I was lying down and she wass rubbing her vagina on my butts and in the anal as well. I just wanted to ask was it a safe encounter after all. If my anus was inured and after the butt plug and rubbing her vagina? by the way It was so oily.
thanks looking forward
The only adult risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex with someone of unknown status, or
2) sharing intravenous drug needles

If you do not do either of those activities, you will NEVER have to worry about HIV.  
ok thanks but any how I can do a test :) just for the peace of mind which test should i take?
You might as well test to see if she made you pregnant. There aren't any guidelines for a placebo test so you can just make up some of your own if you want to waste your time doing that. You don't have any medical training so it is unrealistic for you to have so much confidence in your own theories about HIV while having zero confidence in the 40 year old science, so if you continue to believe only in your own science fiction, then consider seeing a mental health therapist to discuss this with.
But first reread all of the advice and maybe you can get over this fear. Otherwise therapy is the quickest fix if it works.
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