Thank you so much for your advise
Also the next day after the encounter I noticed a small cut on the backside of my finger not sure when it occured or if it was bleeding during the encounter or if she had an active open wound at the same time what is the risk of transmission through this way
Thank you all for the reassuring advise however went I visited a doctor 4 days after the incident I was given a course of trivenz tablets together with a multi vitamin I have been taking it for a week and on monday I started breaking out into a rash on my hands and today some appears on my forehead they are red and itchy
Oral sex is not a risk of HIV transmission, particularly if you are the insertive partner. You do not need testing for HIV and cannot experience seroconversion. You might want to get tested for other STIs though such as chlamydia or gonorrhea for example.
But just to answer your questions, ARS symptoms usually appear 10-14 days after exposure. Symptoms are not a way to diagnose yourself as a lot of symptoms are quite similar to other infections such influenza.
You had no risk from oral sex and therefore nothing you're referring to has anything to do with HIV.