Sex in sea water!!

[Dubaii]

Hi guys, i have to say that u r doing amazing job here, just to cut it short and save the time

I have 3 exposures with same lady!

1- we were drunk and had protected sex in the sea water! However foreplay was involved( i touched her vagina with my fingers and i believe i have a cut on one of my fingers at this time)
2- foreplay and protected encounter. No blow jobs or anything involved .
3- samething the next day!

That was on july 23, 25 and 26. After having sex i got to know that she had lots of sex before and 90% was unprotected ( actually she was asking me to remove the condom all the time as she doebt like it) !!!!!!  But i refused and kept it on all the time..  

Since we are back to dubai UAE and it's very very expensive and risky to get tested here. I managed to get only on whole blood test kit for hiv 1/2 and it has been only 9 weeks and 2 days and cant wait more than that to test?!  Would the result be accurate if i run the test today?!  Or it's better to wait until it's 12 weeks to get more accurate result?!  

Thanks for ur thoughts in advance!!  

[Dubaii]

Thnks man,
I couldn't wait anymore and had the test few minutes back!  
The result came back negative (thank God) andim moving on with my life with wife and kids! It was only 10 weeks test though but I believe it's conclusive as u said!  

Thanks again bro

[JamesD1991]

Any test you take will be conclusive.  You did not have a risk.

[Dubaii]

I hear you bro and really appreciate ur help but right now im not asking about my risks! Its a general question,  if im getting tested would the test be accurate as its only 9 weeks 3 days since my last time having sex!  Or should i wait until its 12 weeks?  

[JamesD1991]

Again, you had no risk.  There is no other way to put it.

[Dubaii]

Thanks for ur reply,

This lady came to dubai like 2 month back and got her medical done which includes HIV test a month before i meet her, assuming that she had sex right before she flys that would be meaning that she had her HIV test a month after her last encounter!  Whould that be indicating that she is clear or should i be concerned!

One last question if u dont mind answering it :-)

I'm going for the test in all cases but i want to know; should i get the test done right now ( 9 weeks 3 days)  or wait for 12 weeks?!!! And i will be using icare HIV 1/2 test antibodies whole blood which i dont know the generation of this test but i believe if im not mistaken and pleas correct me if im wrong that this test is third generation!

Thanks again James and all the best

[JamesD1991]

No unprotected penetration, no risk

[Dubaii]

?!

[Dubaii]

Thank bhai for ur reply.

The condom didnt slip off and didnt brake as well. 100% sure about that as i tighten it after removing and throw it away and the semen was inside it!  Hopefully im correct :(

The test im having called i care


self-diagnostic test for HIV (Human Immuno-deficiency Virus) infection. This rapid HIV test kit detects HIV 1 & 2 antibodies in blood.

Gives results in 20 mins with >99.8% accuracy
Lightweight (~50g) and portable, this kit can be used anywhere
Instructional insert with step-by-step instructions provided
Long shelf life: 2 years
Certified by global medical standards:

WHO (World Health Organisation)
USAID (United States Agency for International Development)
TÜV ISO 13485 (ISO's International Medical Devices Standard) Certified
GMP (Good Manufacturing Practices)

These are all the information i know about it. If u have any please share it with me as i dont know the generation of this test!!


Thnx again

[diver58]

1. If you correctly remember that neither your condom slipped of completely nor broken during penetration, you are safe and no exposure to any risk.small non bleeding cuts do not put you at risk either if you finger
2. No exposure
3. No exposure

You were wise enough ignoring her on condom removal. In an act of sexual intercourse, this is the sole layer of protection you have.

Though you do not need any test for the exposure you mentioned, however if you still want to test, wait another 3 weeks if your test kit is a simple antibody rapid type.