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Should I be Worried of HIV/STD

First of all, this is my first time post a question here. I am gay and i did not have sex more than a year. I am HIV negative. I decided not to be sexually active after 5 times check up that I clean. Now, after more than a year, I met this guy, we had sex. I am worried because he is look skinny, and when he takes off clothes, some of his bones can be seen. We had protected sex for oral and anal. I am the bottom guy. As I remember the condom looks good and not dry, but I did not check the expiration date, there is no hole when I performing oral and before he **** me. He cum inside me with the condom wrapped his penis.We used the same condom for oral and anal and only used my saliva as lubricant. When he pulls out his penis, I can see the condom still attach and no dropping of semen. I also did not feel any cum leaks from my anus except my *** little wet (maybe due to ******* thing/well i do not know, but it does not smell like semen). He kissed me on lips and cheek...no deep kissing, he teeth looks bad, i think he is heavy smoker. Plus he got broken skin on his palm, and I could not remember where his palm has landed on my body. Now i am worried if the condom used was the fake one and already expired, also I am afraid if it has tiny holes which I failed to notice or maybe the semen leaks into my anus. Did I in risky situation? I just need answer to clear out my mind. Part of myself think, i do not need to worry and the other part keep on thinking. I hope you guys could help me. I posted some on the body.com but did not have any reply. so please...
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Protected sex is protected sex.  No risk.
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Ok, i am thinking like that because what if there is microscopic blood from his palm on the condom and he insert it to me due to the fact i developed sore throat after 4 days from that incident. But i found some advice from expert the sign usually takes 2weeks.consider i already explains all my situation, i think this might be anxiety,i assume it is ok then based on your advices and james. thank you =)
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No risk. Stop thinking of absurd situations. HIV is extremely hard to transmit and requires the right conditions.

Even if you had broken skin, blood on it will not infect you.

Do a test if it'll give you peace of mind.
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if we assumed he HIV positive with no treatment using his palm with broken skin lubricate his penis wrapped in condom with my saliva. did it consider as risky situation...  i did not see blood dropping from his broken skin. what if there is tiny amount/microscopic blood present? am I in risky situation? I am afraid right now. am i paranoid?
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thank you James...maybe I overreact about the condom quality and about other things.
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