Should I concern about HIV status

[Hovver1]

Hi Doctor.
1.Incident on November 11 2015 with condom broke/slip in middle during vaginal sex she was on top while sitting, by time I realize in 1 min immediately I tried and ejaculate after  outside. After that incident Dec 11 ie 4 weeks after I did test on the girl with Ora check antibodies test it was negative and also mine was negative
2.Incident 2 went to massage Dec 10 2015 had a handbjob from the lady ,is this cause of concern transmitting HIV?
I was more worried about the first incident happened and so far did testing
1)41 day test with Rapid  4th Generation HIV Ag/Ab - negative
2)42 day test HIV-1 RNA, Qualitative - non reactive (checked with test team they said no further testing required after this test)
3.All other STD testing was negative except HSV1 type 1 positive suspecting which could have been there before the incident
4)63 day this week Monday had Oracheck antibody test -negative

Note - No symptoms so far appeared since the incident happened

Please let me know if need to wait until 12 weeks to do conclusive test to have another antibody test, if not can I move ahead with my personal life and normal sex with my wife its so painful and frustration days ahead can't concentrate anything .Please help or comment if this tests are conclusive .
Appreciate your quick reply

[sleeplessnights34]

Yes it is, and most would say at 8 weeks it's conclusive.

((I confused the the 60 days I typed with "6 weeks"). Because at the 6-week-mark it would be better to choose a "finger prick" test over the Oraquick ((for a better indication)), as Oraquicks may take longer to detect the virus.

Here we adhere to the 3 month mark. So follow up at 12 weeks with an antibody test. "But I wouldn't be worried if I were you".

Sorry about the confusion over Oraquick.

[Hovver1]

Thanks . Don't you think ORAQUICK antibody in home test is not reliable?

[sleeplessnights34]

Judging by the type and timing of your tests one can say they're a good indication but not conclusive.
Stay protected for intercourse until the 12 week mark. The other activities (oral & masturbation) don't pose a risk.
It has already been 60 days ((just over 8 weeks)) since your your "first unprotected intercourse" encounter.  ((So if you had an "ANTIBODY" test now - NOT THE ORAQUICK OR PCRS- and got a negative, that would be considered conclusive by some)).

[sleeplessnights34]

12 weeks is conclusive. Expect a negative.

[Hovver1]

Thanks.  I can go ahead with sexual intercourse with my wife do I have wait ? can I have at least oral hand job or masturbation orally?

[Hovver1]

correction  - 2)48 day test HIV-1 RNA, Qualitative - non reactive