i am a 23 years old male, who had unprotected vaginal and anal sex with a woman of unknown HIV status on the 1st of september 2018, 2 weeks later i had flu flike symptoms which are; Fever, extreme fatigue, headache, vertigo ,dizzinesss, nightsweats, diarrhea,swollen lymph nodes in my neck, swollen tonsils, pharyingitis,numb feet and hands and an alarming white coating on tongue,i started worrying about HIV, i lost contact with the woman so there was no way i could confirm her HIV status. furthermore, the symptoms persist for two weeks, until i went to get tested in the capital approximately 30 days post exposition. the doctor reassured me telling me that symtpoms don't show up this early after infection and ordering a 4th generation HIV test, which came back a week later and negative. the symptoms shifted somehow i started experiencing body aches especially on the joints, the white coating on tongue is still persisting even now, i had to confirm the first 30 days negative test since it was too early to jump to conclusions, i had another 4th generation test at 46 days precisely and a rapid test at the same time to appease my worries, after 20 minutes it came back engative and a week later negative as well. it had brought me some relief. but still not conclusive because of all the symptoms i was still experiencing, after my 6 weeks test i started having some skin problems like folliculitis on legs and on my scalp, random pimples on my body that aren't acne, and a measles like rash on my chest that comes and goes it is not itchy though,also my while sleeping my hands are numb and i feel a sort of tingling on my fingers. the problem is it's been nearly four months since the potential infection and i can't test because of my work they sent me to work in the south where there are no HIV clinics whatsoever. i have to wait 20 days until i can get back to the capital where i can test and be assured once for all. i have to add that after 2 weeks of the sexual intrecourse i started stressing and worrying more than supposed the symptoms i have described are indicative of an acute HIV infection, a weak immune system or immense stress. i apologize for writing such a long testimony but i really need help, should i trust in a 30 and 46 days HIV 4th generation test and move on with my life? thank you for taking the time to read it and possibly answer this.