Hello - Thank you for everyone’s feedback on here. This is a great resource. I had a recent encounter that is freaking me out a bit. Hoping you can provide some guidance.
Seven days ago I had an erotic massage. We were both fully nude and she was sitting on my waist/thighs with my penis in front of her fully erect. She moved her body to grind her vagina/groin up and down my penis shaft a few times then reached down and spread her outer labia open to wrap around the base of my penis as she continued to slide. (Think of a wiener in a hot dog bun). This grinding was brief - 2-3 seconds - and my penis head was not enveloped by her labia or in danger of penetrating her vagina. I don’t even think it touched her clitoris. Grinding was mainly limited to my penis shaft.
I see a lot of posts on grinding, genital apposition, and frottage but not sure if the enveloping of the penis shaft by the outer labia fits under that.
Some last details: No condoms, I am uncircumcised, and she felt slightly wet though I am unsure how much due to massage oil being used (I did stick my fingers into her vagina).
Can you advise if I need to be concerned at all for HIV and what my risks are for herpes or HPV?
Thank you in advance