Duo test at 8,5 weeks

[Mithra1982]

Dear,
Folowing unprotected anal sex with another make. Don’t know huis status. I had tests at 4 weeks, 6 weeks with a rapid duo test. I also had a test at 8,5 weeks for Ag and Ab. All these tests were negative. Since week three to this day i have daily headaches. I have a lot of anxiety.
Kind regards,

[Sara_MHModerator]

Your question was fully answered that you have tested negatively conclusively.  We wish you the best.

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[GuitarRox]

Okay, THINK about that question.  Does that even make sense?  Your anxiety is a overruling thought here.  When you get to the point of thinking in an irrational way, it is time to address the real issue, the anxiety.

If you had gotten HIV, you'd have tested positive. Tests are the only way HIV is diagnosed. Not by symptoms.  You have tested conclusively negative.  You do not have HIV.  You need to speak to a doctor though about anxiety in my opinion.

[Mithra1982]

Thanks. I appreciate you’re time and effort. I only fear that i did not wait enough time to test, that’s my main fear. It’s difficult with all the conflicting information. I hope i can close this togheter with my doctor and therapist. Thanks again.

[GuitarRox]

I think you were told on your last post that you did not need to worry about HIV after your tests.  Your headaches are probably because of your anxiety.  How about working on the anxiety?  Talk to your doctor about that.  HIV is not the issue here as you have tested conclusively negative.  

[Mithra1982]

Thanks for you’re time. If my headaches were due to hiv, would my tests be positive or not?

[Mithra1982]

I’m going for the first week to a therapist. I had a panic attack because my wife had a white spot on her gums like oral trust. We only did it one time with condom, but my mind let me think that i contamined her. I m sorry for my repetitive questions.

[GuitarRox]

It is definitely getting repetitive and hopefully this isn't another question.  You have already been given the facts.  Dragging your wife into your anxiety and guilt is not fair. Move on from this fear.  I'm glad you are going to see a therapist, it seems quite needed.  Hope it helps but HIV is not a worry here.  For you or your wife.