what went wrong?

[fututacu]

Hi there
Exactly a year ago had an experience with 2 female csw at the same time. I'm straight.

First girl: no oral, no kissing, no fingering, condom protected sex. She was on top of me, I was sitting in the toilet .. I was not that erected, after a minute or so heard a "pop" and said "what was that?" .. And without removing my penis completely from her (I know dumdass) checked it with my hand and felt everything fine .. We continued for maybe 2 additional minutes and asked her to stop bc I was so flacid that I couldn't continue. She stood and saw that (apparently) nothing was wrong. Saw a condom covering my penis completely. Removed it very carefully. Noticed some wetness in my pubic hair area (vaginal fluids I guess), but again didn't notice anything wrong with the condom and threw it away. Never felt any wetness while trying to penetrate her. By the moment I said stop I didn't even know if I was actually inside of her. Oh! And washed my penis.

Girl 2: started to mastubating me without protection and kind of made hard again. Put on a fresh condom and again to the toilet. This time was my penis was harder and was actually ******* her.. 2-3 minutes, then she stood up, and martubated me with the condom still on till climax. Removed condom, condom seems to be in perfect shape. Took a shower. End of story.

What worries me the most is the pop sound I heard with girl 1. And maybe vaginal fluids in the scene ..

About 4 weeks after that I had a jock itch like rash in my inner thights that went away a few days later with antifungal. Something I've had before in my life so wasn't worried at that time...

Then flash forward to week 10, started to experience severe fatigue,had slight headache for about a week during the afternoons, had a weird heavy acid reflux felling for about 2 days accompanied by a weird feeling in my throat. Like something stucked in there, not severe but disconforting. Everhing happened pretty much simultaneously and went away after a few days

After that I started felling my neck I little swollen (glands?) But couldn't feel any actual swollen gland. Then also started to fell like fullness feeling in my armpits and my groin area.. On and off and more noticeable when I was thinking about the whole thing .. Never felt any pain ...

Then my gf, whom I've always had safe sex with, had a severe flu with peeling hands, peelling face skin (like psoriasis or dermathitis) and a weird rash on her feet soles ..

Please help..
1. Does the pop sound meant the condom failed?
2. Does the rash sounds like ARS rash?
3. What about the symtoms I felt on week 10 and later?
4. What about my gf symptoms?
5. Should I be worried?

[Teak]

You never had an exposure and don't need testing. You've been advised several time on this forum and on another forum.

[worriedwell29]

If you had no risk, then there's point in discussing ARS,  second even if there had been a risk, symptoms can't diagnose you. If you look on any HIV site, it clearly warns you to not diagnose yourself based on "ARS" symtpoms because they are the same symptoms found in more common conditions...lastly you could receive all of the info in the world on ARS ...it's not going to calm you....trust me I know....the only way to know is to get a test....If you truly had protected sex, then you had no risk, if you aren't sure , then you know what you have to do. period

[Vance2335]

Why are we not talking about ARS, well it's simple ARS does not diagnosis HIV and since you had NO RISK. There is no reason to talk about ARS. And even if you had a risk we don't talk about ARS because not everyone would get symptoms.

[fututacu]

dont get why cant someone give me some information about what ARS is about and if my symptoms are similar

Teak Please kindly stay away

[hongkonger]

similar exposure.. worried

[Teak]

Move on.

[fututacu]

I ve read that the sypmtoms and timing. I experienced are those of ars... Could someone elaborate on the subject??

Please don't answer to say no risk

[Vance2335]

No your symptoms are not of HIV.
What about your gf?? You had protected sex...NO RISK.

[fututacu]

Hello

[fututacu]

Do you mean my symptoms does not sound like ARS?? What about my gf's??

[joggen]

Neither of your symptoms indicate HIV.

Should you be worried?

NO

[fututacu]

Txs for ur comments .. I'm pretty much concerned about symptoms I experienced .. The jock itch rash (week 4) .. The fatigue headache acid reflux neck swollen (week 10-12) ... Do they sound like ARS???

What about my gf symptoms??

[joggen]

You had safe sex.

[worriedwell29]

I'm not sure about symptoms and condoms popping, but if it's been a year, you should have a test for everything anyway. If you're sexually active and not in a monogamous relationship then you should be tested every year anyway by recommendation.

[fututacu]

May someone else comment? Please ..

[Teak]

You never had a risk.

[fututacu]

Don't understand ur answer .. Could u please elaborate? Please answer my questions .. I need some education on the subject

[Teak]

Had the condom failed you wouldn't be here asking questions, you would have known.