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what are the risks of catching HIV from a quickie/no ejacuation?

i know this is a silly question, and i know that hiv can be transmitted through sexual intercourse, blood, and semens, but does the time matters? Say, 3 minutes, and he didnt come. I'm waiting for my 6-8 weeks period to get tested and I'm really worried now. It was a mistake, i accidentally had unprotected sex with this guy in a car but it didnt go well so we stopped after 3-4 minutes, and none of us came. I know there's nothing I can do but wait, but i'm just trying to eliminate choices here, and hoping someone could help me clarifying this. Thanks much.
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Stop hijacking other people's threads and move on.
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What exactly in layman's terms is HIV sheading ...?  Couldn't find  anything about it here ...?
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thank you so much charmedoasis.
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well, I told you I was tested NEGATIVE at that time, and I wasn't informed about this 6-8 weeks period until I went back to see the doctor again. So I would assume I was clear back then.
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If you are positive yes. Why would you have unprotected sex with anyone if you were being tested for an exposure and you didn't know your status?
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I also have another question, Teak.

say, if i had another exposure during that 3 week times (during the time that I was tested negative for HIV and already treated for Chlamydia; I wasnt informed about that 6-8 weeks period back then), is there a chance I can pass it on to my other partner without knowing? I know you might as well say 'use condom' but please just bare with me.
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thanks tom24978 for cheering up, and thanks Teak for clarifying.
I was told by the doctor to wait for that 6 weeks period; I was tested positive for Chlamydia as soon as I had an exposure (with my other partner) -- that's why I'm worried. my result also came out negative for HIV; but then it was only 3 weeks at that time, so I am now waiting for another test to make sure I don't have HIV (or worst case scenario, I do). I guess there's nothing I can do but wait, blame my carelessness and finger-crossed; but thank you all anyways.
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The guidelines for a conclusive negative test result is 3 months. There are no tests marketed or sold to give anyone a conclusive negative test any earlier.
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some people says it does,but to be on the safe side get tested at 3 months
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3-6 weeks test will not give you a conclusive negative test result.
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I no your scared.I would like to calm you down about the situation.well maybe if i share a bit of my experience it will maybe calm you.I had unprotected sex with someone i never saw in my life and i waited for the time to go by to get tested.It came back negative(all stds).

Thats to tell you not everyone has hiv.But to be on the safe side still get a test within 3-6 Weeks.

Trust me.You will be fine!
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You don't need ejaculation or blood to transmit HIV. Take the time to read up on HIV sheading. Your 3 months test will be conclusive.
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