URGENT-- EXPOSURE TO HIGH RISK HIV Episode

[landmireireman]

Dear ladies and gentlemen,
I would like to thank you all for the help and support you give to people with similar worries, so I came here  to seek a professional help from a specialist if it's possible.
I'm a 26-years old professional (heterosexual) with a promising career and fixed plans. I had only have 3 sexual partners throughout my entire life, but recently I have had put my life at a risk! 2 months ago I had.unprotected vaginal sex with my date who claimed that I was her second. this occurred after she broke up with her boyfriend in about 4 months; however that I got scared and.went testing for HIV the next week after exposure and both of us scored negative.
Two nights ago, stupidly, I.met a shemale from one of this dating sites and we spent the night together at.her/his house. I was curious and attractedto the female figure, so we went French kissing and love bites,  then I received a blowjob (he/she was sucking me) for almost 5minutes then came back kissing again right before going to sleep. This morning I woke up with a "cold sore" over my upper lip, so my question is : did I got infected with HIV from this shemale ?or the earlier date I had 2 months ago?
believe me, I'm damn stressed ; I know I'm dumb to do this but I need immediate help!
please answer me

[Vance2335]

Post in the Herpes fourm.

[landmireireman]

well it appeared on MY LIP! I mean I'm the one who has this cold sore two days after the exposure, that's my last question, could it be herpes?! ty

[Teak]

You didn't do anything with them to put you at risk for HIV.

[landmireireman]

how about the cold sore that just appeared right after that night with the shemale?! ty again for ur quick response

[Teak]

The only risk that you have had is the unprotected vaginal sex. You can obtain your conclusive test result. 3 months post exposure.