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Unprotected fellatio and frottage,protected sex,in risk?

Hi there.In the past two weeks i got two exposures:
1.A 'low class' csw gave me a fellatio with some hot water in her mouth for 10 minutes,i ejaculated in her mouth.I didn't know if there was bleeding gums or sores in her mouth.My penis didn't bleed,but i thought maybe some small cut on it
2.I had protected sex with a unknown status girl,but before the intercourse she gave me a frottage(she rode on me rubbed her wet vaginal lips to my penis),i'm uncircumcised.I weresured the condom was intact and didn't slipped off.
Now i think i had made big mistakes,be very anxious ,do i got risk,need any test?should i have protected sex with my healthy partner?
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366749 tn?1544695265
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This is an HIV Prevention Forum so you were advised here accordingly. As you were told, HIV risk remains non-existent in the situation you described. Some other STD's do transmit through oral SEX, however, please get the appropriate advice from the relevant STD forum.
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thanks,ill go
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Thank you so much,doctor,your answer is very detailed and helpful!Sorry,i have one more question,am i risk in other stds such as syphilis?Is that mean im can have  unprotected intercourse with my healthy  female partner?
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
If condom fails it is a large rip down the seam and it hangs in tatters so you don't need to do close inspections. Move on from HIV fears.
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