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Unprotected oral & protected anal HIV worry

Hey everybody I'm 20 y.o. Bisexual male. I took my first ever HIV test (blood was drawn) back in late April 2012. I had  numerous prior (mainly oral & occasional protected top/bottom action) the last being 3+ months prior to testing.

Since getting tested my first of 7 encounters (with 4 different guys)

Guy1: unprotected oral (me giving the BJ) no ejaculation

Guy2: unprotected oral (both given & received) no ejaculation, but could sense an abrasion on the roof is my mouth & cheek

Guy3: unprotected oral (both given & received)  no ejaculation  and unprotected rimming (both).  *this occurred twice two different occasions *

Guy4: protected anal sex (me bottm) 2.5 times (third time condom was used as well but never fully penetrated and one instance of unprotected oral (me giving & felt abrasion in cheek)

How risky exactly were these encounters because I'm honestly really worried for some reason out of nowhere may just be anxiety (these were guys I knew not random hook ups) I just need some guidance...I'm taking a test next month to be safe just checking opinions on risk....????
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It doesn't matter how many partners that you have as long as you use a condom for anal sex.
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In reality you had no risk,my concern is the multiple partners.The decision to test is yours--all the best.
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The other STDs aren't really my worry...at least in regards to. HIV
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No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex.
Int Conf AIDS 2004 Jul 11-16; 15:(abstract no. WePpC2072)??Balls JE, Evans JL, Dilley J, Osmond D, Shiboski S, Shiboski C, Klausner J, McFarland W, Greenspan D, Page-Shafer K?University of California, San Francisco, San Francisco, United States

Oral transmission of HIV, reality or fiction? An update
J Campo1, MA Perea1, J del Romero2, J Cano1, V Hernando2, A Bascones1
Oral Diseases (2006) 12, 219–228

AIDS: Volume 16(17) 22 November 2002 pp 2350-2352
Risk of HIV infection attributable to oral sex among men who have sex with men and in the population of men who have sex with men

Page-Shafer, Kimberlya,b; Shiboski, Caroline Hb; Osmond, Dennis Hc; Dilley, Jamesd; McFarland, Willie; Shiboski, Steve Cc; Klausner, Jeffrey De; Balls, Joycea; Greenspan, Deborahb; Greenspan
Page-Shafer K, Veugelers PJ, Moss AR, Strathdee S, Kaldor JM, van Griensven GJ. Sexual risk behavior and risk factors for HIV-1 seroconversion in homosexual men participating in the Tricontinental Seroconverter Study, 1982-1994 [published erratum appears in Am J Epidemiol 1997 15 Dec; 146(12):1076]. Am J Epidemiol 1997, 146:531-542.

Studies which show the fallacy of relying on anecdotal evidence as opposed to carefully controlled study insofar as HIV transmission risk is concerned:

Jenicek M. "Clinical Case Reporting" in Evidence-Based Medicine. Oxford: Butterworth–Heinemann; 1999:117
Saltzman SP, Stoddard AM, McCusker J, Moon MW, Mayer KH. Reliability of self-reported sexual behavior risk factors for HIV infection in homosexual men. Public Health Rep. 1987 102(6):692–697.Nov–Dec;

Catania JA, Gibson DR, Chitwood DD, Coates TJ. Methodological problems in AIDS behavioral research: influences on measurement error and participation bias in studies of sexual behavior. Psychol Bull. 1990 Nov;108(3):339–362.

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who believe that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." Dr. Hook
"The observation on thousands and thousands of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK
"I would not say your risk ,if he had HIV is "slim to none"- that's too high.  I would say they are effectively zero.  How much of his ejaculate or other genital  secretions you may have swallowed makes no difference.  EWH "
"As far as HIV is concerned, there is no known risk of getting HIV from performing oral sex on an infected partner, even if that person's genital secretions get into your eyes or if you swallow." Dr.Hook
HIV is not spread by oral sex, giving or receiving, even if sores, gum disease or blood is present
DR HOOK
The fact is that there are no cases in which HIV has been proven to be transmitted by oral sex, including fellatio..  EWH
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You had sex with multiple partners--I would have a full STD screen which includes HIV.
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Quick question I also meant to ask...what about the little cut/abrasion that may of come from food or just biting during the oral sex?
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Thanks ma'am
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Thanks
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You don't need testing as you never had a risk.  It's recommended that sexually active people test annually for all STDs, including HIV, but you do not need to test as a result of having these encounters.
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You never had an exposure and you do not need testing from any of the situations you've provided.
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you're welcome
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Thanks
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I would test only because you had many different partners but it appears you never had a risk.
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Oh and the dates are from July 2012 to Sept 2012
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