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What Risk of HIV and HEP C after nude body to body massage?

Hi,
I had a nude body to body massage with an escort 18 days ago. During the encounter she first massaged my back and buttocks with her nude body sliding up and down with body contact including vagina for 10mins. She did use massage oil. On 3 occasions she gently ran her finger nail down my buttock crack down to my scrotum. I then turned over and she performed a nude body slide up and down where by my penis did come into contact and rub her vagina about 6-7 times over 10mins. Her legs were initially open but I asked her to close them half way as I was worried about the risks. I did not have any cuts/wounds on my genitals and I did not not see any on her either. However her pubic hair felt a but scratchy on my penis. She then sat on my chest legs apart with her buttocks facing my head (69 position) and she gave me a hand job while I massaged her buttocks. My face was about 6cm away. I had a good look her buttocks ago did not see any wounds. She then finished me off with a hand job while massaging my scrotum. I am sure there was no penetration during the encounter. I was not wearing a condom. I showered afterwards.
2 days later I began to worry about the encounter and vigorously washed my penis. Some soap entered my penis meatus and I experienced severe pain in my right groin lymph nodes which quickly became enlarged within 60mins. These lymph nodes have remained enlarged ever since. 4 days after the encounter my right neck and jaw lymph nodes became enlarged and have also remained so till now. I took a course of Azithromycin just in case but there has been no improvement.

I assumed the encounter was low risk and decided to ignore it. However 16 days after the encounter I developed and extremely itchy anus. I saw a doc with noted vesicle lesions around my anus consistent with herpes. This was a big shock as I did not have any direct vaginal to anus contact during the encounter. Her vagina only slid on my buttocks (not deep anus) and in fact most of the rubbing was vagina to penis. My whole body has been very itchy over the last week but I do not have any rashes or penile lesions.

I am completely freaking out as I was not expecting herpes in this area and I am worried that the encounter was higher risk than I anticipated. I cant sleep and I am worried about HIV and HEP C transmission in particular given I already now have herpes. The anxiety of waiting 3months for testing is killing me. I have a family and job the relies on my health. I am so ashamed and disgraced with myself. Please help!!
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
Symptoms are not of use for HIV doctors to diagnose, so they are only of interest to people who mistakenly think they prove something about hiv. Don't wash your penis with soap trying to kill dead hiv virus again and stop self prescribing antibiotics because they weaken your system which might be a problem if you ever actually have an infection.
There is an hep forum for best answers to that question.
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Thanks for your reply. I had heard there is a risk that vaginal secretions could have made contact (dripped or rubbed) with my penile or anal mucosa. Would that result in an transmission / infection ?
Reread about unrealistic.
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