What are the chances I got HIV after unprotected sex?

[katiee37]

Hi, I have had unprotected sex several times in the past few weeks with someone who is possibly HIV positive. I am saying possibly because he claims that he has been tested, but I feel like he might not be telling the truth and he has some symptoms, he keeps getting colds and he has a swollen gland in his neck. He has only ejaculated inside once, the rest of the time we had intermitent intercourse. I am really freaking out because I think he might be lying to me. If he really is HIV positive, what are my chances of getting the disease? I don't have any symptoms, but I read that this varies and it might take a while before my body shows any symptoms.
Thanks

[Teak]

3 months post exposure after your last unprotected sex and your test will be conclusive.

[Monarch33]

I really don't think you have anything to worry about. I wouldn't let comments from non-professionals freak you out. If you are really worried, feel free to get tested... but just to calm your fears.

[longbeach15]

yeah teak...

[Teak]

Facts are harsh? So be it, if it prevents someone from contracting HIV.

[sammy2010]

Bit harsh that i think, dont you think she is wooried enough

[katiee37]

Right, thanks a lot for the very helpful advice.

[Teak]

HIV is not anything to guess about. Had you used condoms you wouldn't be here.

[katiee37]

That I know. I was just wondering what is the possibility of me getting HIV after having unprotected sex once.

[Teak]

3 months post exposure after your last unprotected sex and your test will be conclusive.

[katiee37]

I don't see how that was relevant, but I updated it.

[Teak]

87 years old? Your chance of having sex at all is slim. You want to update your profile?