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Unprotected Oral Both Insertive & Receptive

Today I had sex with a girl of age probably 28-30. I met her online and today i had sex with her, Silly me , Let her take my Uncovered Penis into  her mouth in heat of moment. she gave me uncovered BJ and i ejaculated in her mouth,(She vomited after i EJACULATED in her mouth as she does not allow *** IN MOUTH)  Again Did Mistake of licking her vagina uncovered and  fingering her.
I had then sex with her with a condom on, Total 3 times vaginal sex,  with 3 new condoms, NONE of those slipped or Ripped or leaked ( I water tested it after i was done).while she was leaving  I asked her  DO YOU HAVE SEX WITH CLIENTS WITHOUT CONDOM  & have u ever checked your HIV Status , to which she replied "  I DONT WANT TO DIE" & She confirmed that she uses condom with her clients all time,.thats why she never got  herself checked, Probably she is into this for the last two yrs. & She was well educated

My concerns :
1. Her HIV status is Unknown to me , Should i be WORRIED, ? an HIV+ can spread Hiv though ORAL sex, both receptive and Insertive.(Read online)
2.  I am from India, It is said that India is  3RD highest country with HIV people, But at the same time wiki says, over   90% prostitutes  DOES Protective Vaginal Sex here.
3.I kissed her  French kIss and Closed mouth kiss ( It was brief), Her Dental health was not so good....... So again i am concerned  :(
4. Licked her vagina for brief 3-4 Minutes
5. I always Washed my penis with soap water after every ejaculation, Even for Oral After Ejaculating in her mouth  I washed my dick with soap and water , Similarly after removing condom , i did the same.

Looking at all above points , What you Guys suggest  ? Should i be worried for test  or just forget everything  and let the life go.
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20620809 tn?1504362969
If your brain can't get on board, you should see someone for irrational anxiety.  That's the bottom line. And your second question is a bit much after my telling you the specific ways that people get HIV.  You had no risk, period.  
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And I do feel for you as a lot of people come here without understanding how HIV works and are anxious.  And anxiety can overtake their mind.  But it still will not make a non risk into a risk.  So, you had no risk at all and have no reason to worry.
20620809 tn?1504362969
Here is how people get HIV --  from unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing of IV drug needles.  Air inactivates the virus as does saliva. So, unprotected oral either giving or receiving will not result in HIV.  So, you had no risk and no worry of HIV from your encounter.
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hmm....my heart says believe u....brain says worry ..
also one more question...does hiv survive in water? I washed my penis with soap and water after all ejaculations...
Pardon My Ignorange, But if you dont mind How Do u define a protected/unprotected Sex?  suppose I wear a condom , while taking off the outer layer of condom where vaginal fluid  oR hiv touches my penis Tip ,  so it is not protected i believe .....Also i read online that If a HIV + Person gives Blow Job  or receives blowjob... chances are very high of getting HIV...there are BLOGS online written, where  HIV+ people are claiming that they got hiv from ORAL sex.
You have missed the point. Oral sex no matter if protected or unprotected is NOT a risk. And no matter how many times you ask or say you read this or that, it will not become a risk. There is not a single documented and proven case of HIV transmission through oral sex in all the history of HIV.  

And to answer your general question, protected sex is with a condom and unprotected sex is without.

But you had no risk and you have to move on.  That's it.
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