"i had all symptoms fever cough and white tongue, but everyone was sick in family." You make no sense. If they were all sick it wasn't from hiv - yet this worries you that it is hiv too. Since you had no risk you weren't sick from hiv either. You probably all got Covid or flu or food poisoning or other disease.
Seek therapy for your anxiety which is becoming a bit of a mental health problem when you turn a family sickness into an imaginary hiv infection in you and an imaginary epidemic of hiv in your family.
Please see a counselor for your irrational fear, there was no risk associated. Paramedical staff are trained to take care of your health and safety, there is no reason for you to believe that someone would intentionally jeopardise your health.
No risk. Testing is not recommended.
If you are that worried about having blood drawn that you think the medical people who do this all day long don't really know how to do their jobs, then next time tell them in advance so they can show you what they do. You can't get hiv unless a hollow needle was used to share and inject so move on from that idea.