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I have no-one to ask this IRL and am really scared about this so i decided to ask it here 2 years ago i had sex with my maid who is married and even has kids... i was around 15 at the time and I know what i did was absolutely disgusting and unacceptable and have no clue what took over me.....to this day i regret and hate myself for what i did... I did it only 1nce and it was around 2minutes vaginal protected (im a fool).... She can't be blamed since i did it on my own free will and i was the one who started it... After about 8months then the maid left and i didn't worry much but since this week, 2 years later (2017) i've begun to freak out soo much and get scared if she had a std or even hiv since she actually was having an affair with another person back then so we got her to leave.... I am still 17 and will be 18 this may so I am still with my mother.. I am really scared to tell her this because which mother would not be furious with a son doing such a nasty thing? i feel so ashamed of myself and at the same time i don't want a dangerous disease or something and dying young.. Please can i get some advice? should i just tell my mum or hold it in? i can't think straight this whole week due to this issue and feel so lost Thank
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Hello there worried guy. I have good news for you. Your encounter was safe since you wore a condom. You have literally nothing to worry regarding STIs.
Don't feel guilty you are young boy I bet most of boys would be so proud if they were you.
You will not die young. Even if a person has HIV or any other stis he or she will live normal life with todays medicine.
Now do me a favor stand near a mirror smile to yourself and be happy. You are healthy man!
Best regards
- Nik
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Sorry maybe i mentioned wrong I DIDNT USE A CONDOm.... so im worried..i mean the sex was really quick like1/2minutes but still im really worried :(
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You said you used a condom so you had no risk for HIV. Condoms are what people use to avoid HIV. No risk means you don't have any HIV concerns.
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