you are not infected for sure. I just told you the possibility of condem repture just to warn you not to go with sex workers.
I had just one incident in my life where i had a sex with a sex worker. Even though i used condem it broke and i was exposed to risk. I had all the symptoms due to anxcity and stress. After 3 months I am tested negative and it is conclusive. I do'nt have any more symptoms or issues. I am very normal and back to life now.
In your case you are not atall at risk as you were never exposed. Even an exposure with an infected female will not surely infect you as the probability is 1 in 2000. so there are lots of odds in a male's favour.
So just relax. all your symptoms are due to anxsity and sometimes some other normal viral infection. You do'nt have any slightest chance to get infected. So stay away from internet that could make you crazy and look back to your life normally.. otherwise you will simply waste it for nothing.
Take care in future to avoid this kind of trauma.
guys thnx for your time. ur words are very comforting.im 16 now.but jus in case i will have a test when im 18 or maybe even next year. thanks so much guys . i'm never gonna have sex with a csw again. its time i respected women
do u have aids?? im sorry man. yes and il keep out from sex with a prostitute forever.
i've been praying to god and asking him forgiveness. the sex was a mistake.i've learnt that temptation can reap sadness. family is everything.
can finally someone jus pls briefly assure that i dun have hiv. even if the condom had ruptured are the symptoms i faced valid.was it too early or too short.im sure the condom did not rupture cus when i took it out i saw my load in it and there was no drippage. im jus nervous that god is punnishing me or something.but i know he wudent,it was my first with a prostitute and it is surely gonna be my last.thats a promise.
It is true that your expsoure was safe and not risk atall. But I recommend staying away from such risk as there is also a risk of condem repture too.. It is true that if you use condem you are safe but what if your condem breaks.. that is not in your hands but this can happen and it happend to me.. so just do'nt risk youself with sex workers just trusting that thin membrain..
The best thing is to avoid sex with sex workers and people whom you think had a risky living style...
Let this be a good eye opener . You are now 100% safe and do'nt need to test even.
thanx guys.i've been feeling like **** for so long. i did it in geylang. are u sure hiv cannot be transmitted when u have protected sex. im scared that i took out the condom wrongly or something. moreover my symptoms appeared in jus a week and a half. pls guys. answer me. i've gotta major exam next week but i cant concentrate.
I am a Singaporean too. Don't worry. I think you should be risk free as long as you are protected. If you are nervous, u might want to go down to DSC clinic for a check. However, DSC is like a polyclinic, might be crowded at times. Alternative, you might want to contact Dr K.V.Ratnam (1 of the best STD/Skin doctor around) Tel: 63393050.
p/s: Dr Ratnam might be a bit expensive BUT he is really good. Take care.
my first time lasted 15 minutes also, 14 minutes to find where to put it and 1 minute to get rid of the condom! I went somwhere in between.
15 minutes for your first time! Damn I got bigger problems than you do! Just kiddin! Maybe!
wow...I should be telling myself this but you were like 100% safe in your actions. From what I know, there is little to zero chance of transmission on the recieving end of oral sex, even without a condom, and if the condom was still intact the whole time during vaginal sex, then you were at zero risk for transmission. My problem is that I worry too much for my own good. I had the same exact experience as you, except i'm a female and did it three times. I know I probably have little to worry about, but I cannot convince myself of this...