If the condom came off and you were inside of her then you would have pushed the condom deep into her.
Hi Vance, thank you very much for your reply.
how do I know if it was protected on the second incident?, how about if the condom had slipped before withdrawal and I didn't notice? I just remember her getting startled and me quickly pulling out. As i mentioned the condom ring was still outside of her vagina. Is it possible that i was penetrating without the condom and it remained in that position the entire time? I am a wreck ! I have always suffered of anxiety ... I am not sure if the symptoms I am feeling are real or if they are a product of my anxiety?
You had no risk. The 1st is not a risk because you used a condom. The 2nd is not a risk because condom stayed in her upon withdrawl, but penis was protected.