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anal sex with condom

Doctor, I am male, and a gay, 24 years old.
Ten days ago, I had anal sex with a person in the gay park.
He got fistula-in-ano, but not serious, when I was in him, his anus was not very wet.
I am the top, and I used the condom, with lubricant(water, not oil).
The condom did not fall and break.
After the ejaculation, I stood, and he took the condom off, and I wore the trousers.
I am afraid that, his hands touched the body liquid on the condom surface, and then touched my penis,prepuce,and even the balanus(he did not do more after my ejaculation, i mean he touched by chance).
My prepuce is long, in the condom, the balanus is out, and the prepuce covered the balanus again along with the condom taking off.
Am I dangerous? How long can hiv survive outside the body, if it is in the body liquid?
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1907998 tn?1331839319
listen to teak hiv does not survive outside the body and you had protected sex so you  didnt have a risk.
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480448 tn?1426948538
YOU NEVER HAD A RISK!!!  Quit trying to come up with a way that you did!  Condoms work, and the virus can NOT remain active outside the body, therefore, you can NEVER get infected by being exposed to a person's body fluids, even on a cut or scrape.

Move on!
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It seems that, before I wore the condom, we were standing face to face, and he touched my penis with his hand and penis, I am not sure if there was prostatic fluid on his penis—— is there any risk?
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Thank you for your answer and humor.
Despite the fingering, do you think I was in risk according to the posts above?
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sorry to disturb you again and again and again……
I remember that, I had inserted my finger into his anus for a few seconds, without protection.
There was no wound in my finger, but I am not sure whether there was hangnail or not.
Besides, it seems that finger is not a inclosed organ, is there any open interspace(at the joint of nail and skin) which may provide a entrance for hiv……?

many thanks!
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Thank you joggen, thank you RainLover71. I will do well.
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You need to huge gaping wounds + blood to blood for transmission to take place.Not little scratches.
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What kind of injuries is not common, and risky?
My scratches were not bleeding like cut by a knife, but I could see the breakage and some blood.
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Your details are irrelevant. HIV is not transmitted through common skin injuries like scratches. There is no detail that you can provide that will change this forum's assessment. Let it go.
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sorry, I think I have to provide more details which I can remember.
that night, I had anal sex in the park, which means not in the room.
he lay on the ground, face up. I lay on him, face down.
my knees got scratch when I was moving, just like a person fell down and got scratch.
what if I touched the scratch with the hand which touched his body liquids during the sex (I can not remember whether i had touched the scratch or not, it seems that i put on the trousers immediately after he taking off my condom)?
what if the water rushed the body liquids to the scratch when i was taking bath?

besides, i really want to know when will the target cells in the inner plate of prepuce work. they just exist on the surface of the inner plate? or will be esposed after some hurt?

I really need more medical education. Thanks very much.
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Thanks, angel girl.
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Thank you for being so sure.
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480448 tn?1426948538
Re-read the answers you've received.  You had NO risk.  Any "symptom" you think you have is not related to HIV!
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186166 tn?1385259382
if you are having health concerns, see your dr.  it has NOTHING to do with hiv.

why?

YOU HAD NO RISK
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sorry to disturb you again.
it is 21:24 here, and at about 17:00, I found some rash on my belly.
they are small, red, slightly unheaval, not itch, not ugly.
there two clusters on my belly, each contains 10+ (I mean the number of the rash).
so far, i have not found them in other place.
I am afraid that this is the symptom of AIDS……

I konw that the symptom are not necessarily related to AIDS
but four days ago, i got fever(37.5, mouth)(now is ok); three days ago, i got diarrhea(only that day); and today, rash.
fever and diarrhea, may be the result of the cold water bath.
but fever\diarrhea\rash, one after one, i can not stay calm……
i am eagerly to know, what does AIDS(the acute phase) rash look like……
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Thank you for your answers, It's late in China, and I have to go to bed. Thanks, and hope you well, hope me healthy.
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it seems that i look "up" on hiv.....i hope you are right.
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u r 56 years old, I like this age. welcome to Nanjing, China.
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Reread what I just posted. "HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host."
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what if the hiv is in the body liquid that is outside of the body?
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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Thanks for your answer.
But I am worrying about the process, I am worrying about that there are several problems during the whole process.
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You never had an exposure.
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