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bdsm and hiv

Hi,

Please help, the anxiety is going to kill me.

I had unprotected sex only once in my life. It was not a typical intercourse, though.

She was a professional dominatrix which made me lick her feet, shoes, belly, she spit into my mouth twice ( i swallowed) and than performed a golden shower (on my face/mouth). I don`t think i had any open mouth sores at that time, but would i always know about them?

I heard about hiv rash before, nut never really cared about it, because i thought i`m safe. 7 weeks after the happening mentioned above, i noticed rash on my thighs and buttocks. The night after this discovery, i couldnt sleep at all, i was sweating like crazy and my bed was all wet in the morning. I was scared ********.

The morning after i googled a lot and realised i had very small chances of being infected, so i kinda forgot about it and went on holidays. In 9th week, i had some kind of sore throat,  it wasnt really severe, but it was enough to bring the anxiety back. However, the sore throat went away in a few days and i felt some kind of relief again. Now the 13th week since the possible infection is passing, and i`m freaking out for the third time. I have two small acnes on my lips (could it be herpes, how can i tell?), and i`m starting to believe the sore throat is back.The rash never really went away, i have a feeling it becomes more visible/more red after exercise.

I however havent experienced any other symptoms (no fever, no swollen lymph glands, no muscle-aches, no diarehha).

What do you think?

Pls, help me out.
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Thanks so much to both of you. I hope these posts will keep me calm when  i notice next strange changenon my body!
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YES,urban myths.
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Thanks so much. So those stories about invisibly small open mouth sores are myths?
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No worry at all.  The ony way sexually speaking that HIV is transmitted is through unprotected PENETRATIVE anal or vaginal sex.  Nothing is is relevant or a concern.  None of the activities that you have described are a risk for HIV.  You have nothing to be concerned about.
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Youre right. So there is absolutely no worrying about pissing and spitting needed?
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It doesn't sound like you acyually has unprotected penetrative anal or vaginal sex, am I right?  If you didn't then you have absolutely no risk for HIV.
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Also, the rash was never itchy or causing pain,  but it doesnt look much different then some images of ars rash on the web.
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