Worried please help!

[massageaddict]

Today i had visited a massage parlor and things happened so quickly the lady fingered her vagina for 5 minutes and came later she put the same fingers in my anus and today i noticed blood from my anus and my anus was hurting when water touched it i had conctipation for 4 days and when i was pooping in the morning o had blood and tonight this happened
I am really worry and want to commit suicide
Can i get hiv with this?

[massageaddict]

I am confised here and there is no logcal answer
People say sharing a toy is a risk in my case its not toy but a finger and i got answers that its not a risk please advice i am so confused and i feel like life is a burdon on me now i am lookig forward to your answers with explanation of how sharing toys is a risk and why sharing fingers is not a rosk

[CurfewX]

NO ONE has ever been infected by fingering.  Not one person.  You need to seek mental help counseling.  There is no other way for us to tell you you had NO RISK.   You aren't able to accept medical facts, and that points to an anxiety issue.  Your issue is not HIV.

[massageaddict]

Ao you mean sharing toys or fingers is safe?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Several of our knowledgeable members have taken the time to inform you of what the risks for HIV are, and you were clearly advised that you had no risk for HIV.  We cannot keep asking our members to answer repetitive questions about your no-risk event, so we are closing this thread and strongly advise you to seek mental health counseling.

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[isallinyourhead]

I understand how you feel, must of the feelings are resulted from fear and what ifs where as in reality you had no risk. please suicide is a very serious issue and you should seek help,
In an adult, only unprotected anal or vaginal sex and sharing IV drug needles is a risk for HIV infection. if you avoid those you will always stay hiv free

[CurfewX]

You have been advised previously that this activity is NOT a risk for HIV, and that the only risks are
1) having unprotected, penetrative anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous drug needles.

You did not do either of those, and you had zero risk for HIV.  Considering suicide is an EXTREME reaction to a no-risk event, and you should consider being evaluated for mental wellness.  It is possible that your rectum or colon was damaged, causing the bleeding - again, you should see a medical professional about this, but it has NOTHING to do with HIV since you had zero risk for HIV.

[massageaddict]

but she used the same fingers inside her vagina and then the same fingers in my anus :( and i have anal wounds due to constipation

[CurfewX]

I read your entire post.  Did you have unprotected sex, by inserting your penis into a vagina or anus? NO.  Did you share intravenous drug needles? NO.    Those are the only two risks.  If you didn't do either of those, there is nothing you can say that will make your event a risk for HIV.

Your anal wounds and your constipation have nothing to do with HIV as you never had a risk for HIV.

[AnxiousNoMore]

This is similar to one of your previous posts where you were worried about shaving cuts on your anus. Perhaps you should see a therapist to deal with your hiv fears, since you were advised of the only risks for hiv back then.

[massageaddict]

Thanks sir i am just curious many forums say if finger has a percum which the hooker has when she insterted her fingers deep inside and then inserted inside my anus

[Chima7]

Please seek therapy for your irrational health anxiety. Your mental problems are far outside the scope of help that can be provided on this forum.

[massageaddict]

I am confised here and there is no logcal answer
People say sharing a toy is a risk in my case its not toy but a finger and i got answers that its not a risk please advice i am so confused and i feel like life is a burdon on me now i am lookig forward to your answers with explanation of how sharing toys is a risk and why sharing fingers is not a rosk