fingering with pre ***

[wigglewoo]

hello, i suffer with anxiety and thought i contrated HIV through a piercing, and someone flicking blood in my mouth in a club. i have got over that one now!

my question is, myself and my partner are going through some tough times and i cheated on him with a friend. he fingered me, i saw him masturbating himself. so me being me have jumped to conclusions and have convinced myself that he has HIV, he had pre- cum on his hands (which he has sworn blind he didnt) and then fingered me with the pre cum on his hands. it has been 5 weeks and i have had no symptoms of acute HIV.

Please can you let me know my risk, if he fingered me with pre cum on his hands?

[wigglewoo]

ok sorry lol! i have just hyped myself up too much over this, might take a while to bring myself back down again. as long as i never had an exposure, i can be fine.

[Vance2335]

You could have move on when I answered you yesterday.

[wigglewoo]

so i can move on?

[plesehelp]

no risk

[Vance2335]

Because HIV is not transmitted from masterbation. Dr's on this site say this all of the time. It is natural for some minimal amount of fluids to be exchanged but any amount is not meaningful, is probably deactivated and HIV does not happen without unprotected intercourse.

[wigglewoo]

i thought so, but its hard to get your head round things when you suffer. just one last thing, please can you clarify how you know that this episode was a non risk factor?

[Vance2335]

Guilt and anxiety

[wigglewoo]

do you think it is more guilt i am dealing with then facts of hiv transmission?

[wigglewoo]

promise???

[Vance2335]

No risk.