Hey guys, community, first i've gotta state that i've been consulting the forum for a looong time, and i've always find reliable information here to nail down my doubts, i'm familiar with thje postures of dr hunter and hook but this time i'm here with a good one a veri specific one but not paranoid at all cuz it's been kinda answered by my local expert but i'm feeling like i need some more feed back so if leaders in the community can join the discussion it would be great, here we go:
a few days ago i went to a party and i engaged in unprotected sex with a youg female 23 yo (i live in mexico city) i'm really not into condomless sex but i was drunk and beside all the classic excuses i really liked the girl so i didn't want to miss that chance,,, anyway, because i was drunk i think it wasn't a long sex sesion , i really can't tell much, but i lost my erection before i could finish, anyway, the girl left the room and i fell sleep, next morning another guy i just don't know told me she had sex with him before me (also unprotected) like 30 minutes before,, he wasn't joking o bragging cuz other girl confirmed the story, so, that make me wonder if i was doubleing my risks because there's not a high prevalence of hiv in my city and is even less amog women, but this made me go to the local specialized clinic in hiv to ask if i needed PEP, but doctor said i didn't meet the criteria, that i wasn't really at a high risk even with the other guy cuming inside her before me, send me home with shots for other stuff, orders to test in 21 days and that's it...
i'm pretty confident on his pronostic and i don't any other option than just wait fopr my , but it makes me wonder... isn't sharing fluids with another man statistically more risky than it is with a woman? cuz i definetly shared this other guy fluids, i have to say i don't know neither the guy or the girl, not their hiv status, just can tell the're not Drug users, but i'm wondering if denying me PEP was just to save their clinic stock...
do you think i really didn't meet the criteria for PEP?
you think this episode doubles the standard risk for vaginal unprotected?
can you relate me to other simlar posts? i swear i haven't found any other like mine and guys,,, in this forum that's frustrating and weird hahaha.
i'm pretty shure i'll be fine, but i wanna hear from you guys, i'm coming back in june 3 when i have my vtest results just to end the thread.
may the force b with u!!!