hiv

[notdoingitagain586]

hi,

I went to a massage parlor in Jan 2011.Had sex with a condom which broke in midway. Did not ejaculate in her. Was afraid of getting HIV. The woman said she did not have HIV.Shamefull to say this but I’m married. A few months later my wife got pregnant. She and the baby went for all the test including HIV test and both of them are fine. I'm just human, after sometime I went to csw three times, all times I used condom even when the women gave me blow jobs. But the third time I fingered the women and had anal and vaginal sex and in between the intercourse, spur of the moment I licked her vagina not realizing that she was a csw. I Washed my mouth, did not see any form of blood in any area. Now I’m scared to death.

1) is there any way my wife and child are infected?
2) after the third time am I infected I with HIV?
I’m promising my self not to do any of this again for the best of my wife and son.
3) must I get my self checked for HIV and when must I do it?
This happen abt a week ago.

Pls help!!

[notdoingitagain586]

hi guys

thanks for the answers.
did not take a test of any kind till today.
kind of scared
after my wife went for pregncey test and all, din think of it till what happen last week.
What should i do

[things]

Well, your last significant exposure was in January 2011 when the condom broke. By now, any type of test would be conclusive.  All others seems low risk to me.

[Teak]

You can obtain your conclusive test result 3 months post exposure.

[michael852]

For the rapid HIV test out there,they can detect anti bodies up 25 days,but if I was you I would talk to a doc to get a professional opinion.