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how foolish am i? really scared

I was fondling with an old friend. I know she gets really drunk n gets around. she has been with two of my friends. one they had sex n the other they made out. so even though we were both drunk somewhere in my mind i was thinking about it. anyway. i fingered  her vagina and rubbed her vagina with my penis. all unprotected.it got intense and i wanted to have sex with her. i pointed my penis to her vagina and i lay it on the entrance of her vagina. i did not penetrate i lay it on the edge which was still tight. not inside. so its my penis head that lay at the entrance of the vagina. i then asked her have you been tested? she said no. i then pulled out from the entrance of her vagina without penetrating and having sex n said ill take you. this happened a day ago n ill take her tomorrow. if shes positive wat do i do? take pep?? i dint penetrate her i lay my penis head at the entrance of her vagina between her two lips stretched my legs so as to be sure not to penetrate before she answered the question. she does not seem keen to test n i dont believe she will show up. anyway whats the risk of catching hiv from such an incident?
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No penitration=no risk
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all im saying is i did not penetrate i placed my penis under her clitoris or under the vagina lips. thats where it rested just before the opening of the vagina. is that a risk. im sure thats wat i did so it was half in half out im 100% sure
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They are not, and what more do you want? We can't tell you what you did, we can tell you if action X or Y had a risk. Simple as that.
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pls answer me teak or lisa if ur in this forum. im going mad here pls
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i dont know dude. i just dont know. i thought penetration was full on sex that i dint do. i wanted to talk to her so i pointed my penis trwads her vagina . sort of placed it on the vagina hole. but dint push in . i hope she comes tomorrow n i hope she is negative. i know shes scared dude n so am i. all i know is i was on the edge. just before the point where her vagina opens up n i can slide in. for my penis to balance on the edge must hve been slightly on right.
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Either the penis went inside or it didn't.
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i was able to balance the tip of my penis on her vagina at the very end of her vagina for like 20 seconds. it felt like a dead end really .but was not inside. it was right at the entrance is this considered penetration?
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I been in bed all day thinking. hope shes ok tomorrow ill update.all i know is we dint hve sex but to think of it my penis penis pointed  in the entrance of her vagina. so must half been a quarter cm in
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I been in bed all day thinking. hope shes ok tomorrow ill update.all i know is we dint hve sex but to think of it my penis penis pointed  in the entrance of her vagina. so must half been a quarter cm in
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Not playing the "what if" game, either you did or did not.
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ive had sex a few times and i know how it feels to penetrate a lady. and what if i dipped in like half a cm with my penis ? not entered her  but just dipped when i was asking her a question. put it this way the face of my penis was  between her two lips of her vagina. i believe my penis lay on the entrance of her vagina. but i did not go in. meaning we did not hve sex at all. i just lay my penis on her vagina
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I see no HIV risk
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