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dear community experts,

i feel i have been exposed.

just about a month back i visited a csw... we didn't have sex as i didn't carry protection. however we ended caressing each others genitals followed by body to body contact that led to rubbing of my genitals on hers untill i cld climax.

there was no oral or penetrative sex. but since i climaxed am not too sure if my semens came in contact with hers.

based on this incident what is the level of my risk...i haven't really fallen unwell as such but have been extremely anxious as i never allowed by genitals come in contact with a females genitals while mine were unprotected. can u please assess my risk and guide me further in terms of if I was atr risk or if i need to test to confirm. to repeat no penetrative or oral at all.

I will be highly thankful.

Awaiting

Regards
Dinesh
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No risk, whatsoever.
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I am have been extremely unwell...will body rashes ( somewhat like lesions ), extreme cold and cough, feverish most of the time, zero energy, lack of sleep, weight loss...Teak, can you assess my risk...and can this be ARS?

Please help me bud
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What was your risk?
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I rubbed my penis on the csw's vagina until i climaxed
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No risk.
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Can I move on without a test?
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Can I move on? do I need to test?
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You do not need HIV testing.
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Just detailing my exposure


dear community experts,

i feel i have been exposed.

just about a month back i visited a csw... we didn't have sex as i didn't carry protection. however we ended caressing each others genitals followed by body to body contact that led to rubbing of my genitals on hers untill i cld climax.

there was no oral or penetrative sex. but since i climaxed am not too sure if my semens came in contact with hers.

based on this incident what is the level of my risk...i haven't really fallen unwell as such but have been extremely anxious as i never allowed by genitals come in contact with a females genitals while mine were unprotected. can u please assess my risk and guide me further in terms of if I was atr risk or if i need to test to confirm. to repeat no penetrative or oral at all.

I will be highly thankful.

Awaiting

Regards
Dinesh
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Teak i know am grappling...but please if you can confirm...can I rule out testing for HIV...please confirm dear...please
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Read the above replies to you.
186166 tn?1385259382
hiv is transmitted through...

unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse (penetration)
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

you have been assessed by this forum as NOT having a risk of contracting hiv from what you have described.

kindly move on...there is nothing more we can offer.
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Yeah but I rubbed my penis on our vaginal lips...where there are fluids...are you saying yet am safe?
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You did NOT have penetration. NO RISK.
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But the inner area of my penis ( which is the mucus membrane) came in contact with the vaginal lips till climaxed...can you clarify the final Q
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186166 tn?1385259382
THERE ARE NO "BUTS".  TRANSMISSION REQUIRES PENETRATION.

· Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusive negative results or a no-risk situation will be based up the criteria MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
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KINDLY MOVE ON...WE WILL NOT KEEP REPEATING OURSELVES TO FUEL YOUR ANXIETY.
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Thanks people for being patient with me. Finally can I consture that I am absolutely safe and that i can move on without a test and go ahead with my married life? Please just a simple Y/N

Thanks.
God Bless
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Please last answer please
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* After excessive posting, a warning will be issued by MedHelp
* Continuing to post regarding the negative result / no risk situation will result in a 3 day suspension
* Continuing to post upon your return will result in a permanent ban.
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