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master bating with veginal fluid on my penis

Hi,
i feel so shame and ask this question, but to get rid of this mental stress i need to , and also i am so worried to get tested.
i have been in thailand end of jan in 2018. i have done a massage there and the girl put condom and insert in to her vegina, same time i push her to remove from my top, after that she remove the condom and start to master bate with the same hand she removed the condom.
after the happy ending i went to wash room and wash cearly. i afraid i got infection from her veginal fluid while master bating.
i got the below sysmptoms after that
after two weeks - fever
after 4 weeks - cough
after 8 weeks - nose infection and a small swollen lymph
after 20 weeks - stomach ache
some times mouth ulcers coming and going

and also my life partner got ear infection, swallen lymphnodes and rashes in 2018 july. i mean after 20 weeks of my exposure.
i am really panic and please need help on this.
is it possible to get the hiv infection through this activity, and also i called them last day and asked is there any hiv infected person. they said they are doing the test every month for the massage girl. this has been one year and 2 months now.
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i have done eliza 4th gen test. and its NON-REACTIVE.  so feel so happy and i am out from all the worries. test after 8 months is perfect rite ?
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Reread about unrealistic then move on from pretending your imagination is reality.
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You didn't have a risk. You can't infect some one with something that you don't have.

Please see a therapist to address your guilt issues. If your partner really has ailments to be concerned about please see a doctor, HIV is not the reason for it.
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead. See doc if her rashes are still there after 2 weeks  because it isn't hiv - you aren't a doc so you are wasting your time pretending you are.
hi.
i have one more question. please help me out.
the incident was like, i used a condom and insert for few seconds, then she removed the condom and master bate with the same hand using some creme. she must have the veginal fluid in her hand. so is there any chance to transmit the virus from her veginal fluid to me. ?

sorry for my question, i feel so paranoid with the symptom, i got almost all the symptoms for hiv. thatsy.
You can't have ARS symptoms because you never had a risk. Nothing that you mentioned here puts you at a risk for HIV contraction. We have already offered you the best we could provide from here, for your irrational fears please see a therapist in person. You don't have an HIV concern.
thanks alot mike. i am so glad to meet you here and get your advice. thanks alot
188761 tn?1584567620
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You didn't have a risk. Nothing you mentioned here puts you at a risk for HIV transmission.

Your symptoms can't be related to HIV since you never had an exposure.

You don't need a test and have nothing to worry.
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Thanks bro,
but i feel always negative and keep coming different types of HIV symptoms. this is why my most worry.
You feel negative because you ARE negative.  You never had a risk for HIV.  You cannot have symptoms of HIV since you cannot possibly have HIV.
hi bro, my worry is my life partner got ear infection and swollen lymh nodes, once she take the medicine she got rashes all over the body for two weeks. is it possible that she got infected from me? it is my worry. because rashes are abnormal for all people. please help on this, my worry mainly on this incident
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anyone can answer me please. i am really in panic situation :-(
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