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menstruation blood, unprotected frottage/grinding

I always practice safe sex, with a condom, usually.

Last night I came home with a girl, but after realizing that she has a heavy menstruation I decided not to have sex with her, even with a condom.

Instead I masturbated (without a condom), and came on her butt cheeks.

- she had no tampon, and the whole vaginal/anal area was covered in blood (her menstruation was very strong)
- i remember touching her butt shortly before I came, with the tip of my penis, but I cannot say for sure if my uthera came into close contact with the blood
- the blood was not dry (something that makes me headaches)

I know that the virus dies shortly in non-laboratory conditions when exposed to air, yet her menstruation was extreme, and the blood was fluid. I also understand that no penetration means 99% no-risk. But now I am getting crazy when thinking about that whole situation. because I know that she has been sexually active a lot recently with different men.

Even though I answered my questions probably myself, any advice would be highly appreciated.

Best,
Alex

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well there is some timeframe while the virus "dies".

I just want to be certain, so I won't ose any risk to other people. Can I be sure that that situation wasn't risky at all and I don't need to get tested?
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bro, you didn't have penetration, means there is no risk. and the virus dies in the air, her bloods gotta enter ur urethra massively and in a non-air situation in order or you to have a 1/500-1/2000 chance of infection (only if she is hiv+)
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