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Hi All
i was raped at 15 by an older man, I went through this alone and had to go for a series of STD checks i never told my family about this event until recently but at the time i went through this alone and i think it has left me with issues.
I just had a rapid HIV test and other std checks done now i know my ex didnt give me anythin because last time we had sex was over 12 weeks ago.
However just about 6 to 9 weeks ago my male friend who iv known for years and is not very careful thought he would try it on since i was single, I was wearing a dress he pulled it up (i was lyin on my own bed) stuck his finger in quite rough i removed it he then pulled my underwear to the side (i was in shock couldnt move) place his bear penis at the entrance to my vagina for about 15 seconds then tried to push it it was about 2 seconds and my instinct kicked in and i swiftly moved and asked him to leave.
I have a nice new boyfriend now we use protection at all times even for oral as i am paranoid, i would like a few of y questions answered if you guys dont mind.
1, Him fingering me would i catch HIV (he was not bleeding or anythin)
2, His penis being place at my entrance give me Hiv because he pushed into the dip but not properly inside if you know what i mean and i was sore down there the next day
3, I had a rapid test done a minimum of 6 weeks after this event, Should i test again at 12 weeks?
4, Not that i will but if i wanted to have unprotected sex with my bf could i?
Sorry if its so long i just wanted to explain this clearly and i cant stop worrying and all this testing is reminding me of when i was younger and its gettin to me cause again i am goin through this alone and think maybe i need more councellin as possibly guilt of sexual contact makes me think bad hence worryin about HIV all time.
Thank you all so kindly in advance
i was raped at 15 by an older man, I went through this alone and had to go for a series of STD checks i never told my family about this event until recently but at the time i went through this alone and i think it has left me with issues.
I just had a rapid HIV test and other std checks done now i know my ex didnt give me anythin because last time we had sex was over 12 weeks ago.
However just about 6 to 9 weeks ago my male friend who iv known for years and is not very careful thought he would try it on since i was single, I was wearing a dress he pulled it up (i was lyin on my own bed) stuck his finger in quite rough i removed it he then pulled my underwear to the side (i was in shock couldnt move) place his bear penis at the entrance to my vagina for about 15 seconds then tried to push it it was about 2 seconds and my instinct kicked in and i swiftly moved and asked him to leave.
I have a nice new boyfriend now we use protection at all times even for oral as i am paranoid, i would like a few of y questions answered if you guys dont mind.
1, Him fingering me would i catch HIV (he was not bleeding or anythin)
2, His penis being place at my entrance give me Hiv because he pushed into the dip but not properly inside if you know what i mean and i was sore down there the next day
3, I had a rapid test done a minimum of 6 weeks after this event, Should i test again at 12 weeks?
4, Not that i will but if i wanted to have unprotected sex with my bf could i?
Sorry if its so long i just wanted to explain this clearly and i cant stop worrying and all this testing is reminding me of when i was younger and its gettin to me cause again i am goin through this alone and think maybe i need more councellin as possibly guilt of sexual contact makes me think bad hence worryin about HIV all time.
Thank you all so kindly in advance
Hi teak
I was not penetrated he def didnt get inside me there is no way my vagina was wrapped round him at any point, would the fact he was sitting at the,entrance and,pushed but didnt go inside be a risk and also his foreskin was coverin the head
I was not penetrated he def didnt get inside me there is no way my vagina was wrapped round him at any point, would the fact he was sitting at the,entrance and,pushed but didnt go inside be a risk and also his foreskin was coverin the head
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