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one encounter

hi all,

I am from Netherland and freak out.
I have get a encounter with a girl 27 years old
It was vaginal. We start with condkm and end without. The without was just 2-3 minutes.

I read a lot is this right:

1. A 1 encounter risk on HIV is very low
2. Hetero vaginal is like 0,014% risk
3. Circumcised reduce hiv risk by 60%
4. In netherland they say 92% is on hiv medication by hiv positifs.

So by the odds is the risk low by this single encounter?

Im really freakin out please help me.
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You have asked many people about the odds. I am not getting into that, so no sense asking me again.
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Problem is i dont get a answer on my question.

I dont get it. All say its low risk on the net.
Even the docs. The cdc says its 60% less chance to hiv transmission if u are circumcised. I ask is it true with this odds its low risk with one encounter.

U say ask here or advise to test. I know already that i need to test because 0,000001 is also a risk. But my only question is are the odds in my favour and can i expect a negative with this one time..

I really respect you and see that you help a lot. So i was expecting the same.. but now im not helped.. :(
Your exposure has a less than 1 percent transmission rate from a one time exposure.  .  You will very likely test negative but because there is still a very small chance, then you need to test.  Your question WAS answered above when I said that right off the bat.  Good luck and try not to worry.  I sincerely doubt you got HIV.  
Guitar reallyy thanks thanks thanks...

One last question my english is not so good.

What you mean with  "i sincerely doubt you get hiv"?

You mean that the chance is very very big that i am negative?

And is circumcised in my favor?

Thanks again. This is my last question.


Please don't over analyze my comment.  It's not necessary.  I said you had very little risk.  
Guitar oke great person!

Summary:

Very little risk less than 1%.
Chance is big that its negative.
Dont worry and test after 28 days.

Correct right?



YeS!!
I can only say.. i dont no what to say..

I love you all as person.. Anxious you to. Sorry if i say something wrong.
I will not worry now and test for my feel to close case.

Thanks guys girls all..

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i mean is it true  that the chances are low as hetero circumcised man with 1 time vaginal intercourse?

Or shall i worry about it
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The more you ask the more worried you will get thinking about it. What about her? Only a test provides the answer so forget about hiv as much as you can until you test.
Na i get it. But can i expect the test will be negative with this 1 time as hetero man?
See what I mean? The more you study your situation and find there are no answers, the more you will worry. Try to forget about it - or answer my question.
I dont get you question? I will test definitly after 28 days but i wanna know one thing is it a big chance that i am infected with this 1 time with all the odds. What you think? I only wanna know that. Because i see drs writing on this forum that 1 time the chance is low. Also Guitar says that.

Thanks and sorry
What about her?
She say she is negative mom of 2 childs no escort or hooker. But i dont know more about her. We had sex in here house? You mean this info?
She said she is neg, so did she test sometime?  
If she tested and hasn't had any other unprotected between her 4 week window period and now, then she is still negative.
I dont know that. Only know what she say is that the last date was on march 2019. But im not sure if its true.

Anxious you are helping a lot of people i see that in the forum.

What you think with the odds:

Circumcised (6 times less Hiv chance)

1 encouter hetero man ( 0.014% chance for the man)

In Holland goverment medical hospitals dont give PEP by 1 encounter. They say this is very low risk.

Drs on this site says it to.

My question to you. Is there a big chance that the test will come negative ? Or need i be worry..

Please help ..
Ask her to test now if she HAS had unprotected since Feb 2019, or wait for 28 days for your own test. Try to relax until then.
Ok. But by the odds? Is it right what guitar says.. dont worry to much it is low risk for 1 encouter?

So dont stress and test after 28 days?
It is definitely true that the chances of your getting HIV is very low.  Odds are low.  Try not to worry.
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AnxiousnoMore,

Thanks for the tip. Its just to relative the chances in my brains.

I read 1 encounter is low risk (vaginal as a hetero man)

I read Dr Hook and others saying its really hard to get hiv from 1 encounter.

I read that circumcised man are reducing Hiv chance.

Is it true to be infected as hetero circumcised man with 1 time vaginal intercourse?

I know there is a risk but i think im make a fault and think the risk is bigger than that it is. So im very anxious.

Sorry for my bad english
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I wouldn't spend any time studying statistics because you are just one person so it isn't guaranteed one way or the other what the outcome will be. Try to relax while waiting for the 28 so you can do your duo test. Get her to test if possible now because if she is neg and she didn't have any other unprotected during the 28 window period, then you have no risk - if you trust her.
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Guitar thanks great frend. Yes i read also the docs on this forum. All says that a 1 encounter hetero is low chance is it in my favour that i am circumcised? And is it correxct that vaginal with 1 encounter is low risk?
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The statistics and odds are absolutely in your favor.  The rate statistically of transmission for a one time episode is very low and if that gives you peace, it's a good thing to know.  Do test, but expect a negative. Stay busy until you can test and try not to read too much on the internet as it can increase your anxiety.  
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So, you had brief unprotected vaginal sex?  Yes, that is low risk as a one time encounter.  I wouldn't be overly worried but you'll need to test with a 4th generation duo test at 28 days.  Expect it to be negative but you will have to make sure.  
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