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performing oral sex on a hiv unknown guy

34 days ago give and receive oral sex from a gay guy
i am feeling really anxious about the hiv test im about to take once i reach 45 days.

as far as i know i did not have no cut in my mouth, but i taste semen , although he did not finish in my mouth.
-what are my chances of become hiv + assuming he is a positive hiv guy?
shoud i go today and take a test since i already have days after exposure?

please i need help, i am married and have a family and my stupidity make go a play with another man (msm)
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (penis, fluids, mouth, etc. which is not a risk for hiv.) No worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event.
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I really appreciate you very well replying.
Teak, leazzy and joggen can add something to it.
hiv prevention is straightforward so the advice can't change no matter how many people comment. You've been reading old posts to get their names, so you should realize that now.  Move on back to your normal life.
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