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protected vaginal but stupidly unprotected oral!
i have just returned from madrid where i went to a lap dancing club with friends and ended up having sex with a prostitute. we used a condom during which time she gave me a few minutes of oral and went onto vaginal sex with the condom on. however i forgot myself during receiving oral and gave her a few minutes of cunnilingus without protection! the club seemed very professional and reputable and the girl also.
i am now very concerned about the risks i have subjected myself to with regards hiv and other std's.
i have contacted my local english gum clinic and have an appointment for next tuesday.
i am looking for any advice or comments....i have a significant partner and i am obviously now wracked with guilt but more than that would never want to put her at risk. this is the 2nd time i have used a prostitute in my life, the 1st being 6 years ago which was protected, but now i cant stop myelf from fearing the worst.
i thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
i am now very concerned about the risks i have subjected myself to with regards hiv and other std's.
i have contacted my local english gum clinic and have an appointment for next tuesday.
i am looking for any advice or comments....i have a significant partner and i am obviously now wracked with guilt but more than that would never want to put her at risk. this is the 2nd time i have used a prostitute in my life, the 1st being 6 years ago which was protected, but now i cant stop myelf from fearing the worst.
i thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
thank you very much for your quick reply, i have read a lot of this forum today and the help you provide is an amazing comfort to so many by the sound of things.
i will obviously still attend my app for tests of other std's i could have been at risk of, and will take their advice on any further test for hiv, but i hope to sleep easier following your post.
i appreciate your time.
i will obviously still attend my app for tests of other std's i could have been at risk of, and will take their advice on any further test for hiv, but i hope to sleep easier following your post.
i appreciate your time.
from the expert forum here at medhelp:
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort). DR. HOOK
"With regard to the question you ask, I will repeat, as I’ve said more times than I can think- there are NO credible cases in which persons have acquired HIV through performance of oral sex- none!!. The chance that you will be the first is ridiculously low. You are more likely to be hit by lightening while reading my reply to you. DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." DR HOOK
"There is no credible evidence that HIV is spread through oral sex, with or without the presence of cuts or blood in the persons mouth."- DR HOOK
"Oral sex. there is no evidence that HIV is spread through giving or receiving oral sex"- DR HOOK
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort). DR. HOOK
"With regard to the question you ask, I will repeat, as I’ve said more times than I can think- there are NO credible cases in which persons have acquired HIV through performance of oral sex- none!!. The chance that you will be the first is ridiculously low. You are more likely to be hit by lightening while reading my reply to you. DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." DR HOOK
"There is no credible evidence that HIV is spread through oral sex, with or without the presence of cuts or blood in the persons mouth."- DR HOOK
"Oral sex. there is no evidence that HIV is spread through giving or receiving oral sex"- DR HOOK
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