rough frottage and anal pressing

[anonuser03524]

dear members,

  3 days ago i went to see TS escort. we did french kissing.

i laid on my stomach and she then got on top of me she put on a condom and was giving me an erotic massage.

  she began to enter me but she couldnt as i have never been bottom before. she kept pushing agressvely and i could feel a lot of  pain on my sphincter. she did that for a good 40 seconds. she kept stabbing at it but it wouldnt slide in. i then asked her to stop when she got off me she took the condom off.

i decided to check the condom for tears as she was very aggressive. The condom had a tear on the side about 4cm it was not on the tip.

i asked her why is the condom broken and wether her head entered me?

she replied that the tear happened as she was taking it off.  i can never be sure.

i happen to have a bad case of haemorroids and wonder if her uthera touched my haemorids .

anyways she got offended and asked me to leave she gave me my money back and was very angry.

  before i left she showed me normal STD test saying that she tests and that she is a responsible person.

i am extremely anxious and worried. she may of   penetrated me  even a tiny bit ?  

today is day 14 after exposure i developed a runny nose and a sore throat.

please help

thanks    

[Chima7]

It doesn't appear that you had a risk. No one here can answer what happened because we were not there. If you don't know, then no one does. If you believe there was any unprotected penetration then you had a risk and require testing. If there was no penetration then you had no risk and don't require testing. You'll have to decide for yourself what happened and then decide what to do about it.

[GuitarRox]

You do not describe a risk.  Adults get HIV is very specific ways that I'm sure have already been shared with you.  I hope you internalize these and begin to apply them each time you have an anxious worry.  The only ways adults get HIV is penetrating, anal or vaginal intercourse or sharing IV drug needles.  Rough frottage is not a risk. And anal pressing is not a risk.  Air inactivates the virus.  

[anonuser03524]

Thank you for your reply.  However what if there was a slight insertion?

Today is day 15 and i have a cold . Runny nose. Throat sore...  could that be seroconversion?