very worried about oral sex

[georgey12]

8 days ago i performed oral sex on a man i did not know that lasted 10-15 seconds max, and i told him i didn't like it so he performed oral sex on myself.  simply from this i am extremely worried about my risk for many reasons...
1- i have a girlfriend who i really really like and don't want to possibly infect her
2- i was really drunk at the time...does alcohol increase the risk?
3 - have a cleft lip and palette...would this also increase the risk...?

he obviously did not ejaculate in this short time, but i remember seeing a little bit of white substance on the hole of the penis at one point.  i am very very worried and don't know how i am going to wait for a test.  how long do you think i should wait before i get one?  

thanks so much for any help or advice you can give me...it is very much appreciated as i am having trouble getting anything done with all this on my mind.

[snippets69]

You had no risk worth worrying about... What the dentist found means absolutely nothing in terms of HIV.

[georgey12]

i went to the dentist today and they noticed a white spot on my tongue which they thought was unusual.  it has now been 9 days since this incident...should this be any more reason to worry than i already am???

[ben9999imsc]

If you had a wound in your monuth, the man has HIV and a wound on his penis, even you couldn't see it, you have a very very little chance of getting HIV.

[Teak]

You did not have a risk.

[georgey12]

thanks teak...i appreciate the reply - but i just keep looking at all these websites over and over again and some say that it is possible to get HIV from "pre-***."  even though i only performed the oral sex for a max of 3-4 "up and downs"...he did have a pretty large penis and it did go somewhat deep into my throat.  i realize i'm probably being way too worried but i go from one minute being somewhat satisfied with my odds of not getting it to being in a state of panic thinking that i could have it.  i seriously think im going to go insane waiting 4 weeks or however long for more assurance in this matter.  please let me know if you have any other conclusive evidence or case reports along this line.  

[Teak]

You were never at any risk.