worried

[sam767]

i had an unprotected sex vaginal and oral 2 weeks ago with a girl of unkown history.... vaginal for only 30 seconds or less with no proper erection due to fear and lots of alcohol.........and i received a ** as well..

sine then i have some symptoms....

1. joint pain for two days only in the hand
2. night sweats
3. sore throat mild
4. white tongue
5. a bit feverish

i have had a test of HIV after one week from exposure (negative) and a test for Chlaymdia and UTI negative

please let me know

what are the risks of HIV contraction and std

[Teak]

You were given the correct information. We can't help you with your anxiety issue. Had you used a condom correctly and consistently you wouldn't be in this situation.

[sam767]

i agree... i discon all relations for that reason and will not commence till i am sure after 3 months

but i can't sleep at night now and i need to know that risk level.......

[Vance2335]

We don't get into small risk, big risk, medium risk. It's a risk or it's not. What if you did get HIV but we told you that you had a very very small risk? Then you have unprotected sex with 10 other people and infect those people. Wouldn't we be doing a great disservice?

[sam767]

but since i did not have a full erection and the time was too lessss............ will this reduce the risk a lot

[Vance2335]

just to state again...probably low, but testing is advised because a risk is a risk.

[sam767]

any other comments... on the level of risk from the short vaginal exposure...is it low or too loww

sorry but i am tooo worried

[sam767]

thanks

[Vance2335]

Also oral sex does not carry a risk for HIV. And you can't use symptoms to diagnosis HIV.

[Vance2335]

Be patient, people answer questions for free and when they have time.
You had a risk for HIV, so you would need to test 3 months after exposure for a conclusive result. Risk was probably low due to the time, but it takes only one time.

All STD questions need to be posted in the STD community.

[sam767]

pls reply

[sam767]

more information,,

i received oral ** from a sex paid women arounnd 16 days ago as well....

just to mention that each symptom was only for one or two days

+ diarrhhea for one day and again today (mild).

today is the 14 th day

pls help am i at risk of hiv or std.....