Youre right of course. Thanks man.
I meant "if you do" and she doesn't get tested... You caught my drift. You're not slow.
I'm about to give you the best advice you're gonna receive all week:
Go to the girl and ask her to get tested for herpes 1 and 2 (separate tests, that's important). If you don't and she doesn't get tested, ditch her. Then publicly shame her. In that order.
Then you need to test also. There is a possibility that you could have been carrying genital herpes before you met her and the sex has been a trigger... So, if you can confirm that SHE is negative and that YOU are negative, you can sleep easy - assuming neither of you has had sex with anyone else in the past 3 months. Do this and you will save yourself weeks and weeks of "crotch-watch" self-torment.
You're welcome