Thank you Life360_Dave i appreciate the help
Yes your overly concerned as its not that easy with oral sex and no lip sores at the time.
Is it easy to transmit through receiving oral sex? I guess Im asking because I feel like I was tested and it came back negative and not like I noticed any open sores on my partner mouth. I guess am I being neurotic by getting tested again when they arent open sores and have had negative tests in the past.
Yes you can have herpes without showing symptoms .
If you had herpes you'd know it. usually the first herpes outbreak is the worse open sores an all, and its takes a little while to clear up.
Some times the skin down there can be a little bit strange.
But if you had a culture test and it came back negative then I guess its negative!
I tend to use a bar of tea tree oil soap to clean my genitals in the shower its a nice soap with anti bacterial and anti viral properties I find it helps to make sure your skin is good and clean down there to avoid any rashes or outbreaks from other perfumey soaps. which could cause bumps.
But for two bumps to be reoccurring in the same place thats odd, but could be nothing. I would wait and see if it happens again, if so then visit the doctor once more and let them know about this reoccurrence.
But I highly doubt its herpes!!
Ok sounds good. So you can have herpes and see no symptoms?
Testing would be recommended if your sexually active for other peoples protection.
And it has been 2 months since I received the oral sex. Would something have show by now? If i I did have it
Do you recommend testing even with no symptoms? Only thing I noticed is the red dots.
Std,s dont lay dormant it that often they dont show symptoms.
Great thank you for the reply. Just out of curiosity I know they say some STDs including herpes can lay dormant. Is that possible? Or if you have it you would know.
Thanks
Hi, red dots as your describing would be just a skin irritation as your suggesting. Herpes are blister type lesions that open and release clear liguid and would be painful.
Very often when the skin is tramatized, the irritations would appear in the same spot.