hello all. thanks for your work on this site. 4 days ago I received a lap dance at a bachelor party that lead to very brief genital to genital touching (30 seconds max) followed by a handjob with lotion. No insertion or oral sex. About 24 hrs afterwards I felt slight burning sensation and redness on left side scrotum, inner thighs, butt, under and on penis area which is still persisting. No visible sores, perhaps more paranoia than anything but I'm worried I may be at risk for Std, specifically herpes. Any guidance at all pertaining to my concern would be greatly appreciated and would help me sleep! Should I be worried? Plan on getting tested next week. Thanks for your time.