Two and a half days ago near noon, I had protected oral sex and anal sex with a sex worker. After, I carefully took the condom off (didn’t seem broken), I washed my hands thoroughly and wiped my penis clean from top to bottom, as I felt her lips made at least some contact with the base of my shaft and surrounding area (also saw her lipstick on my pubes). Mind you, she most definitely has herpes and it is unknown whether she was shedding or having an outbreak (didn’t seem so). After, about an hour later, I wiped my whole genital area with rubbing alcohol and a damp towel, as well as soap (was unable to fully shower).
The next day, I wake up with a red patch of skin on the upper region of my penis shaft. It didn’t feel like anything, no warmth, no tingle, no itch, just a visible red patch. Of course I start getting concerned, as I am not promiscuous by any means due to my work, and believed I had taken the proper precautions. It was also strange how the contact was on my more upper pubic region, yet I was getting this mark on my shaft. It was like this for that whole second day, a red patch without feeling. Towards the end of the day, it was more of a pinkish-red color and had a shine to it.
Now today, I wake up, and it’s still there, albeit shiny and a little lighter, but there are some bumps (could be from inflammation from friction from boxers, the condom, etc., I do have sensitive shaft skin). The spot now feels slightly cool, but still no itch, no pain, no flu-like symptoms or fatigue on my end. For all of you experienced, seasoned folks out there who have had experience with herpes personally or through someone else, does this look like the start of herpes?