I had initially contracted Herpetic Whitlow from stimulating a former sexual partner with a torn cuticle on my middle finger in Late January of 2016. That soon progressed to have severe swelling, with unpoppable blisters shortly there afterwords in early to middle of Feburuary. At the time I didn't realize what it was until I had recurrent outbreak that was NOT at the initial site of infection, as in it spread to the knuckle below, before it was just above the knuckle. After the blister had opened on its own and exposed an ulcer, I had a PCR Swab Culture Test done on the affected ulcer, and my Doctor confirmed that it was positive for HSV-2 Herpetic Whitlow. The infected area has been red/purplish up until recently where it has gone down in severity of color. But it seems I have Scars where blisters once were as well. My question for the Forum is this:
1.) I always engaged in protected Sex with this partner before, and never saw an outbreak in the genital region. Does this mean that my herpes infection is limited to my finger, or could this mean that I have Genital Herpes as well? (Keep in mind I've never had Oral HSV-1, so my immunity was none.)
2.) Even if it is just limited to my finger, does this mean I could possibly shed the virus from my genitals even without outbreaks since I still have the virus?
3.) Would a Urethral PCR Swab Culture Test be an accurate indicator of viral shedding from my genitals?
4.) Is there anything I can do about the Blister Scars and the Pinkish Tone to the skin on my finger? I can live with having herpetic whitlow, but having it shown so easily is what I'm most ashamed of.
5.) I've read that HSV-2 infections tend to recur a lot more than HSV-1 infection, but is that only applied for when one has an HSV-2 infection in the Genital Region only? Or should I expect to have more recurrences?
6.) Granted if there are no more active leisons in my finger once they've fully healed, can I still put others at risk of contracting HSV-2 through my finger through casual contact? Like prolonged hand holding, handling infants, massaging other people, etc.?
Please, please, please help me out everyone. I'm new to Herpes and it's been leaving me bed ridden ever since my diagnosis. I stress out about it practically everyday, and I really need advice. Thank you for your time.