Hi, I'm a 28 year old male. 3 days after having unprotected sex with a women, I came down with some flu like symptoms; fatigue, slight fever, chills that lasted 5 days. About a week or two after that my genital area started tingling and I was experiencing left sided perineum pain, followed by maybe 5-10 small,red, itchy bumps spread around my thighs and buttocks, nothing on my genitals. This started a year ago and has been recurring maybe once every month or two. Recently I've developed rashes on my thighs, one the size of a softball and a few quarter sized that are light brown in color and flakey. I had an IGG type specific test done for HSV1+2 at 6 months and again at 9 months, both negative, also tested for gonorrhea and chlamydia which were negative. I feel run down all the time with frequent urination and pain in my armpits and legs. My doctor thinks it's all in my head, I was perfectly healthy before this encounter. I've read the HSV tests are fairly accurate but I don't know what else this could be. Any ideas? This has been going on for a year now and I still have no answers. Thank you.