Thanks for the replies guys but justa quick update. My body has been having these aches (especially around the leg, thigh, waist and lower back area) I've been feeling just super drained and have been having a lot of flue-like symptoms. My nose has been running like crazy and my sinuses have going crazy, I've also been esperiencing headaches as well (and I NEVER get headaches). Also a few days ago I noticed a blister-like pimple on my right testicle. It's sort of clearish but has no pain or anything. I still feel icthings around my genital area and I'm not able to go get tested as yet.
I'm afraid it would probably be both irresponsible and unhelpful to make an absolute prediction, since first episodes of herpes take many different forms. I strongly recommend you see a doctor – your symptoms warrant a visit to a medical professional. Tell them everything that you're experiencing, and everything that you suspect. See if the health department in your own or Panned Parenthood can help you - they can often test you for free.
If you have a fresh bump or blister, see if it can be swabbed by the doctor, but be prepared for a false negative if not enough material can be collected to make the test viable. In addition, you could get an IgG type-specific blood test to find out whether you already have antibodies to the virus from a prior infection. This test may also come back negative, if it's your first infection, since it's too early for antibodies to have formed enough to generate a positive result. You will have to retest in four months to be certain.
Meanwhile, please be gentle with yourself. There's no need to worry until there's something to worry about. You will be just fine!
Hi from reading you post its all anxiety driven. If she did not have any obvious sore in the vaginal or oral area present at the time, then really low risk you contracted herpes as shedding does not occur that often.