can anyone tell me the herpes symptoms they first experienced after exposure. I have had oral herpes (cold sores) since childhood and so has my partner. after 5 weeks ago I performed oral sex on someone else and we were both both and his genitals touched mine. Since then I have had the tingling sensation which went away but about a week or so ago I noticed a flat mark on my upper thigh which has no subsided, it wasn't itching or painful. A few days ago I noticed small open sores on my scrotum which do itch a little. To be honest over the years I have had slight itching in that area but never noticed any sores so im not sure if this is a new infection or not. I have been feeling tight and light headed at times but this could be from something else