I was with a man ~3 months ago. I was penetrated using a condom(5 mins) and also we exchanged oral (unprotected for ~2 mins each.) No visible sores. I'm hoping for some confirmation that either i'm overreacting or that i really should be worried.
I've had various symptoms that match some herpes symptoms I've read online. I am hoping that I am just being oversensitive. I've also had some testing and am waiting for results on a blood test I took today (should get it Monday at latest, hoping for Saturday.)
The guy i was with said he was 'clean'. I also asked him to take a herpes test after and he just got back results 2 weeks ago and he said its Negative. I don't know him well, hoping he's truthful.
Symptoms
1 - Night sweats for approx 3-4 days, starting 2 days after potential exposure. I had some other things going on that may be related (alcohol).
2 - Various intermittent body itching, boxer region. Probably started a week or 2 after, probably after I started reading symptoms. most of this seems to be near stretch marks on hamstring area.
3 - Various pimple-like sores on/around buttocks. Most of them have just been itchy little spots. On and off I'll notice an itch here and it's a little bump. Some are like pimples with white-heads. Most on buttocks area, a few on hips. One was close to anus (popped that one when I noticed it and it went away next day, maybe thong rub related?.) None of these are clusters or look like 'classic' lesions. None have lasted more than a day or so. I've read that sores can be all kinds of different presentations. I've probably had `2-3 weeks the last 3 months without noticing this stuff.
Testing
1 - 10 days after, tested HIV, HSV(blood), urine (chlamydia, gono,) and syph
2 - 1 month after, re-tested HIV (early test), and hep
3 - 1.5 months after, noticed a 'pimple' on butt, had it swabbed (2 day turnaround, must be PCR?) and also another syph test.
4 - 10 weeks after - herpeselect blood test
5 - today - approx 13.5 weeks after, waiting on another herpes blood test.
Every test has been negative, including HSV1 and 2.
Should I be concerned? Or sleep easy? Or is it too early to tell? I'm pulling my hair out!
Please, I am looking for feedback - Thank you very much.