Fri and Sat I had sex with my boyfriend of 15 months, Fri he went down on me for quite an amount of time. Mon, Tue I started to feel this itch, this burn. Wed, Thu I noticed an ulcer that was sore and painful and light yellow grey in color. I also noticed I have a yeast infection. Fri I woke up with tender and swollen inguinal lymph nodes, I went in Friday. She drew blood work to test for HSV 1 and HSV 2 and both came back negative. However my scrape specimen test came back positive for HSV 1. I am currently on Valtrex and going through my first breakout, it is the worst pain, tenderness, soreness, and burning pain down there. What now? How do I carry on from this? How do I educate the guy in my life more( he is going to get tested)? How can I have sex again? What risks do I carry for the next guy in my life? How do I prevent more outbreaks?