On Friday night, I noticed some pain near the opening of my vagina... a weird type of pain that almost felt like pressure/swelling. I looked and there were some dark red patches or something in that area. On Saturday morning, I looked again and the area seemed to have expanded, and had white on top of it, kind of like when you get a canker sore in your mouth. Today (Sunday) the whiteness on top is way more pronounced, almost raised off of the top of the sores a little bit if that makes sense? I was going to wait to go to the doctor but decided to go to urgent care today because I'm panicking. The doctor who saw me said that it doesn't look like "classic" herpes to him but he did do a swab, he said he scraped it and couldn't get much of the white stuff to scrape off, and nothing broke open like a blister which baffled him a little bit. The largest sore is on my right side, near the opening, and is sort of a long skinny oval shape (like a line but wider I guess) about 3/4" long. Then there are three smaller ones on the left side near the opening as well. Has anyone experienced something that looks like this?
This happened about two days after I came down with a cold and, weirdly, I had something sort of similar happen about 5+ years ago while I was sick, but it was only one sore near my vagina and was WAY smaller and less severe. I was tested for herpes then and it was negative.
I'm in my 40s, have been married almost 10 years, have not stepped out of the marriage and trust my partner. This is causing both of us a lot of anxiety.