Hello,
I am a heterosexual male but I did something very stupid on November 17, 2017. During the night of November 17, 2017 I met with a transgender person from the internet, and we played around. they jerked me off and I jerked them off for around 10 minutes. then we jerked our penis's simultaneously together for around 5 minutes. Anyways, a couple day after I started feeling irritation in penis so I asked him if he has genital herpes and he said yes.
Anyways, then around December 25th, I started feeling a very bad pain under my penis head on the inner skin. The inner skin since then has a very dark red spot that is around 1 cm length x width. The pain is a burning sensation on penis since then (so 2 months). Then around January 5th, I started developing a pain on my anus too, it is the inside of my butthole, and it hurts (same pain as penis), but it hurts very much when I sit down :/. I then one day looked at my butthole, and it is all red, kind of like the part under my penis head. It burns.
I also sometimes experience burning sensation in my groin and upper thighs, and sometimes I will experienced random pain spurts in my testicles for some reasons?
I am thinking it might be genital herpes, but I do not know. I have not had any classical "herpes blisters" or any of that. I have a big bump on my groin though, it looks like a swollen lymph node.
Anyways,
1) What are the chances of me having genital herpes? I went to doctors month ago and he thought it was some bacterial infection because of no blisters, so I took antibitoics, but no luck (symptoms still going on).
2) If I do have genital herpes, is it possible I can make this pain go away? Primarily the pain under my penis head, and in my buttocks, it hurts very much all day long, and I am going on for the pain for about 5 weeks in a row now..
3) I am thinking of getting IGG blood test tomorrow for Genital herpes. 1 and 2. I do not think it is possible to get a culture swab if I do not have any blisters, am I correct? Or could they swab the red spot under my penis to see what is causing it?
TY
Just in lots of pain and I am young :/ 21 years old. Worst pain of my life whatever this is, and the penis pain has gone on for 2 months in a row everyday, and the buttocks pain around 4-5 weeks.
:/